If you’re kind of older like I am you might recall that song Cher sang: It’s In His Kiss.
Could be you’re a whole lot younger so the song wouldn’t have been on the hit parade in your time.
The Lyrics to the song go like this:
Does he love me?
I wanna know!
How can I tell if he loves me so?
(Is it in his eyes?)
Oh no! You need to see!
(Is it in his eyes?)
Oh no! You make believe!
If you wanna know
If he loves you so
Its in his kiss!
(That’s where it is!)
(Oh yeah! Or is it in his face?)
Oh no! It’s just his charms!
(In his warm embrace?)
Oh no! That’s just his arms!
If you wanna know
If he loves you so
It’s in his kiss!
(That’s where it is!)
Oh,ooh, oh! Its in his kiss!
(That’s where it is!)
Oh, oh, oh, hug him!
Squeeze him tight!
Find out what you wanna know!
If it’s love, if it really is,
It’s there in his kiss!
(How ’bout the way he acts?)
Oh no! That’s not the way!
You’re not listenin’ to all I’m sayin’!
If you wanna know
If he loves you so
It’s in his kiss!
(That’s where it is!)
Oh, ooh, oh! Its in his kiss!
(That’s where it is!)
Oh, oh, oh, hug him!
Squeeze him tight!
Find out what you wanna know!
If it’s love, if it really is,
It’s there in his kiss!
(How ’bout the way he acts?)
Oh no! That’s not the way!
You’re not listenin’ to all I’m sayin’!
If you wanna know
If he loves you so
It’s in his kiss!
(That’s where it is!)
Oh, ooh, oh! Its in his kiss!
(That’s where it is!)
Oh, yeah! Its in his kiss!
(It’s in his hiss, that’s where it is!)
ooh! It’s in his kiss!
(It’s in his kiss, that’s where it is!)
(It’s in his kiss, that’s where it is!)
(It’s in his kiss, that’s where it is!)
(It’s in his kiss, that’s where it is!)
I don’t know how feel about it but I can relate to that song very well!
Have you ever been kissed by some body that you really liked and then when it got down to kissing time you were disappointed?
I’ve been there.
It’s unfortunate to dump some body just because they don’t meet your kissing standards. Men are easy to train – just let them think they’re the ones leading – make it fun. If he’s a bad kisser you can subtly turn him into a good one by kissing him the way you like to kiss.
So what makes a good kiss then?
Emotional Connection.
You know how incredible it feels to finally be kissing the man you’ve got your heart set on. It feels a ton better than just kissing somebody that you kind of like. Don’t you agree then that the physical sensation plus the emotional feeling in you cause fireworks when you kiss?
Relax
Feeling nervy about the whole kissing thing happening will add tension to the kiss. Wondering about whether you’re kissing right won’t let you enjoy the moment. Tension easily gets passed on to your partner. Good kisses are relaxing.
The Now Moment
Good kisses are the kind that allow you to forget about the rest of the world. It’s only about you and him in the moment.
Inventive
Kissing isn’t just about a kiss on the lips or what is commonly known as French kissing. Kissing is an exploration and an adventure. Nibbles and whispers are things that make up a good kiss.
Rhythm
Good kisses are like the tide in the ocean. They begin gently and then get strong. Kisses should be paced out and savored. Suffocating your partner is not recommended! Allow room for breathing and looking deeply into each others eyes.
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