I just read and commented about Some Excellent Advice About Men on Terry MacDonald’s blog.
She says she got some excellent dating advice after her cousin got married.
Basically it means that men who still living in their parent’s home at age 35 aren’t worth dating because basically you’ll be having a big baby to look after.
This is true in many cases. As I said on Terry’s Blog is that i have found men that can take care of them selves which means laundry, cleaning and eating to be more mature and open to new ideas. Even if he does pay some body to clean and iron his shirts it shows that he can take care of him self. These gents are generally more prosperous but not necessarily loyal! You know the player type of personality.
There are exceptions though to this rule. I have noticed that amongst Italians it is often the case that these men prefer to live at home till they marry. Often they are rich and don’t expect their wives to pick up after them – she will have a cleaner because he can afford to pay one. He might though compare your cooking to his mother’s.
But I still say rather be a rich man’s darling than a poor man’s slave!
As for me I just couldn’t tolerate a man that needs mothering. I was once married for 3 weeks because this man’s desire for mothering only surfaced after we tied the knot but luckily I cottoned onto this pretty quickly.
The thing is I would have never married him if I had of known how he felt about numerous things which just were intolerable for me.
I reckon asking as many questions as possible is a good idea before you get married or think of pursueing a relationship. How else are you going to know if you’ll ever be compatible?
So ask that question first – before you even agree to go on a date.
But yeah generally men that live at home till they’re 35 are odd. Ask that question first.
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