In response to Terry’s Blog about a post where she wants to wait until she is married before she has sex. Terry also asks about women in the sex business. It is known that women that are in the sex business make it a point not to bond emotionally and usually they have the rule of no kissing so as to avoid the whole emotional thing.
There’s the thing about knowing what you get before you marry. Look, I’m not of a religious faith that says you should wait until you’re married nor am I a nun. I just believe that if you’ve got a man after you don’t wind up in bed too soon even if you’re wanting to.
I’m certainly not denying that women have no sexual feelings because they do. But I’m also of the belief that men like to be the pursuers so take your time. It just seems that way to many times men loose interest after women have had sex with a man. That’s primararily because the man has now released his sexual energy. This can be compared to when you want something badly and then when you have it, it’s like oh great I have that now what next.
On the other hand there is the argument of not knowing what you’re getting in bed before you get married. Good sex can be learned so that argument doesn’t really count. Good sex comes down to technique. And boy some women, don’t i just know have made the mistake of believing every thing is just fab because he’s suc a pistol in bed. It’s called chemical bonding. You and him may be incredible together in bed but another women could find him a complete bore in bed.
The tradegy is many women are addicted to men that are no good for them just because they have a fantastic time in bed with them.
So I think it’s perfectly okay to wait until marriage to get your first dose of sex because you can learn it all. Besides I’ve heard that virgins have no preconceived ideas about good or bad sex. It can be a let down if your last lover was a stud and then your new man doesn’t know a thing. But these days there is so much information around no one needs to feel silly or stupid not even the first time. Read a book like 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets before the wedding night!
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