I find it incredible that so many women are reading websites, blogs and news letters to find out how to seduce a man.
I’m asking myself has it always been this way?
Or is this a sign of the times?
Why are people finding it so difficult to attract the opposite sex when just by being opposite should suffice.
Or are we drowning in loneliness, spending too much time in front of the computer instead of just being out there?
And I don’t mean we have to be in seedy bars and night clubs to meet men. Common I for one hardly believe I could find my dream man in a bar.
Firstly I don’t like bars and certainly don’t want a man in my life that likes to hang around in bars so why the hell should I even consider meeting a dream man there. And if you’re out to seduce a man just for sex do you want all that bar smell and alcohol? Yuck.
Not that I’m a nun – no problems with sex – I write articles on how to have good sex which are read by thousands. For me having good sex is being sober and fully there in all your naked, healthy glory. Some how I just don’t think bar flys will have what I’m into.
The thing is there is so much BS written by so called dating experts on how you should behave, what you should wear, when you should call, when you should have sex. With all this advice how are you supposed to know anything?
You should wear what makes you feel comfortable and sexy.
If you feel gorgeous doing a balancing act on 10 inch heels then fine go for it.
I do not – I feel lovely and sexy in shoes that I can be mobile in. Those 10 inch jobs make me feel like a cripple – hardly very sexy.
I’m not a make up girl my eyes itch from mascara. I tend to look like a panda bear after I’ve rubbed the mascara all over my face from rubbing my eyes. Not very sexy I’d say.
So lets forget the advice about what to wear because I don’t fit into any of those labels but yet I still have a lot of fun with men.
I’ve got men friends that I’ve had for over 20 years. I’m not stupid I know what’s between us just as they do. Talking to men will always be different than talking to girl friends. It’s natural that the evaluation that happens between a man and a woman is different than that between the same sexes. (Unless you’re gay or lesbian.)
Hello!
You are alive, you can think and I sure hope you know what power woman has over man.
Why do you think women are forced to cover up in some cultures?
Only because the men don’t want to be exposed to a women’s power so they can retain the power.
The most important thing is to get into alignment with what you want from a man. For example you may find your self very attracted to rough and tough men but your heart yearns for tenderness.
Because you feel attracted to rough and tough men you’ll act and dress the part. Then you’ll get those guys and then you’ll be crying. I’ve seen this happen over and over not only with other women but also in my own life.
An Exercise You Can Do
Sit down in a quiet place and think about what you want from a man.
Is it laughter?
Adventure?
Sharing?
Affection?
Generosity?
Affection?
Fun?
A Committed relationship?
What ever it is write it down.
Now see how you are behaving in his company – adjust your imagination until it feels completely natural for you.
Where do you think you would meet him?
If you’re single with kids for example the play ground might be a good place – there’s plenty of lovely men also in the situation of looking after kids with no partner.
What would you be wearing?
Is it any different to what you normally wear?
And lastly but not least who do you think you would be if you had the man of your dreams in your life?
How would you behave with that special man in your life?
What’s stopping you from behaving in that manner now?
Start becoming the person you think you would be if you had that special man in your life.
Remember your life ultimately is the result of your behavior, actions and choices.
To attract some thing new in your life you have to change the way you do things. Doing the same thing over and over expecting new results is crazy, wouldn’t you agree?
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