How To Seduce Men & Be A Feminist

There seems to be a huge misconception - in my eyes anyway that a feminist is an ugly bad tempered man hating woman.

Nothing is further from the truth. To me being a feminsit is being exatly that - being female.

I’ve always enjoyed being an independant woman with a mind of my own and quite frankly I don’t give a damn what people think of me - especially men: That doesn’t mean I dislike men. Not at all. I adore them.

The thing is I’m not into following your typical ways of what is considered to be feminine I guess.

I don’t walk around in 10 inch heels because I cannot walk freely in them. I don’t plaster my face with make up because I feel uncomfortable. I don’t pretend to be meek or unopinionated because I do have an opinion.

I’ve worked in an area which has been predominately male. I’m glad to see that more women are venturing into this field these days. (Producing movies)

I’ve learnt what works along the path of life as far as attracting real and sincere men as friends and lovers.

I also know that you can never make anyone love you but you can want and expect love.

I also know that seducing a man as such is easy.  Because when you think about it seducing means to distract or mislead from one’s usual intention. Remember Michael Jackson’s song Dirty Diana?  That’s pure seduction. But seduction does not guarantee a happy relationship in the long term.

Basically what I’m saying is that you can be a feminist and still seduce as many men you like.

One of my all time favorite women is Isabel Alendes. She calls herself a feminist too. She writes beautiful books that are full of passion and magic. She’s politically aware and she certainly has a mind of her own. She’s also had a man or 2 in her life.

Watch her give this fascinating talk on passion. Passion is what it’s all about in life.


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