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Is Your Mr. Right Online?

Saturday, April 26th, 2008

I know, I know too many women think my God, you have to be pretty desperate to join an online dating club to meet Mr. Right.

But my question is why not? I mean people use the internet all the time to look for all sorts of information. I see nothing wrong with it.

I’ve met fabulous men online.

And besides it’s perfectly acceptable to use social networking sites. Infact one is looked at with a weird glance if one doesn’t know what social networking is.

These days so many people are spending their time online (sad but true – I still love the great outdoors) that it just makes sense to go online.

There are of course tips to setting up online profiles that are alluring. And by alluring I am not saying that you should lie. The truth always catches up with one. Always. But there certainly isn’t anything wrong with putting your best face forward, and you should if you want to attract a high quality man.

Another thing is you should know from the beginning what kind of man you want. The problem is too many women, and I see this with people generally, are clueless to what they actually want. Either deep down they are afraid to ask for what they want or they believe that wanting something is just wishful thinking. I guess it pretty much does remain wishful thinking if you never put your plan into action.

So if you want to meet a man for life, or for part of anyway, don’t feel awkward about approaching the online world of dating. Just think there are hundreds of people coming to the internet daily and many of them or men. Regardless of what you may think there are many sincere men looking for a woman they can cherish.

Sure there are men with hidden agendas but then again I believe that there are also women who don’t say what they mean and mean what they say. But if you take the time to become aware it’s quite easy to spot individuals that have strange intentions.

What you need when you go online is a guide to:

  • Setting up your profile.
  • What photo to show of yourself.
  • What to write about yourself.
  • How to communicate.
  • Which signals to look out for.

In this regard I highly recommend Emily McKay who has the best guide on the whole internet. Believe me when I tell you I come across a lot. Emily has put together a programme called CLICK WITH HIM. It’s jam packed with practical tips and how to’s which any one can implement. And they’re honest – but some times you lack the words or don’t really know whether you should show your face from the side or tie your hair up etc. Besides Emily met her man, Scot Mckay after almost giving up on ever finding Mr. Right.

It’s worth checking out. Sign up for Emily’s FREE 8 Part Mini Course called “16 Generally Accepted But DISASTROUS Dating Principles”. Excellent Information in there.

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How To Seduce Men & Be A Feminist

Friday, March 28th, 2008

There seems to be a huge misconception – in my eyes anyway that a feminist is an ugly bad tempered man hating woman.

Nothing is further from the truth. To me being a feminsit is being exatly that – being female.

I’ve always enjoyed being an independant woman with a mind of my own and quite frankly I don’t give a damn what people think of me – especially men: That doesn’t mean I dislike men. Not at all. I adore them.

The thing is I’m not into following your typical ways of what is considered to be feminine I guess.

I don’t walk around in 10 inch heels because I cannot walk freely in them. I don’t plaster my face with make up because I feel uncomfortable. I don’t pretend to be meek or unopinionated because I do have an opinion.

I’ve worked in an area which has been predominately male. I’m glad to see that more women are venturing into this field these days. (Producing movies)

I’ve learnt what works along the path of life as far as attracting real and sincere men as friends and lovers.

I also know that you can never make anyone love you but you can want and expect love.

I also know that seducing a man as such is easy.  Because when you think about it seducing means to distract or mislead from one’s usual intention. Remember Michael Jackson’s song Dirty Diana?  That’s pure seduction. But seduction does not guarantee a happy relationship in the long term.

Basically what I’m saying is that you can be a feminist and still seduce as many men you like.

One of my all time favorite women is Isabel Alendes. She calls herself a feminist too. She writes beautiful books that are full of passion and magic. She’s politically aware and she certainly has a mind of her own. She’s also had a man or 2 in her life.

Watch her give this fascinating talk on passion. Passion is what it’s all about in life.


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Signs that Reveal His Interest In You

Monday, March 24th, 2008


He Makes Eye Contact

Since men are visual creatures it goes with out saying that men stare at women they find attractive. Generally men don’t stare because staring is considered a threat in the animal world – alpha male stuff!

How’s this for something to think about?

Men are so guarded about what they reveal to women because they are scared that a women might get the wrong impression and then not leave. (Are woman so clingy that men have become so scared?)

Soooo when you do catch a man staring at you and he tickles your fancy, simply smile back while maintaining eye contact for a couple of seconds. Then look away again. He’ll read it as an invitation to approach.

He Listens

Men dislike being trapped in a conversation with someone that doesn’t interest them. Actually same goes for me. Don’t know about you.

If he listens to your talk about your job, friends, mother or what ever for longer than 5 minutes it’s an indication that he’s interested in you.

Sooo if you do find him listening center the conversation on him. That way he can also see that you are interested in him. Men like women who listen to them so if you like him listen to him. Throw in some eye contact to show that you care. If you don’t like him carry on with the blah blah…

He Communicates with Your Friends

Men know that if your friends like him, he’ll have a better chance with you. So if he is chatting to your girl friend it could be just to get closer to you.

If you notice he is talking to your friend don’t feel jealous. Just say nothing and stick close to your friend so he has the opportunity of getting to you through her.

The Woman Men Adore and Never Want to Leave

Did you know that just because you are a woman you have the power to be very attractive to men?

You can have a healthy and loving relationship just by understanding what a man wants. You do not have to mould yourself into something you are not.

Find out how you too can be The Woman Men Adore and Never Want to Leave

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The Marriage Counceller

Wednesday, March 19th, 2008

A husband and wife came for councelling after 15 years of marriage.

When asked what the problem was, the wife went into a passionate, painful tirade listing every problem they had ever had in the 15 years they had been married.

She went on and on and on: neglect, lack of intimacy, emptiness, loneliness, feeling unloved and unlovable, an entire laundry list of un-met needs she had endured over the course of their marriage.

Finally, after allowing this to go on for a sufficient length of time, the therapist got up, walked around the desk and, after asking the wife to stand, embraced and kissed her passionately.

The woman shut up and quietly sat down as though in a daze.??The therapist turned to the husband and said, “This is what your wife needs at least three times a week.??Can you do this?”

The husband thought for a moment and replied,..??”Well, I can drop her off here on Mondays and Wednesdays, but on Fridays, I play golf.”

This is a Monty Python Video titled the marriage councellor. Be warned this is only if you have a sense of british humor.

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Ways to End Relationships

Tuesday, March 18th, 2008

Hhhmmn so many women are looking for ways to end relationships I decided it was time to offer my advice. It’s often times not easy to end relationships because they’ve become such a part of our life. Even abusive relationships tend to become part of the daily existance. Women adapt to situations, even becoming codependant although they secretly wished they knew of ways to end relationships.

So I have put together some tips.

  • Evaluate Where You Stand
    It all depends on how involved you are in the relationship.

    Is it only a dating relationship where you go out together and maybe sleep over at ech other’s places?

    Is it a committed relationship where you are living together or married?

    Is the relationship beyond reconcilation?

    Is there a way you could talk it over?

    Could you forgive, could he forgive?

    If you’ve decided you want out regardless of anything then read further.

  • Release Guilt Feelings
    If you are not getting what you want out of the relationship this is a good enough reason to leave. You are a free indivudual and do not have to feel guilty.

    I know it’s easier said than done, especially if he doesn’t want to break up. Maybe he’s even a nice man but you just feel bored of the relationship. It’s okay – it’s your life.

    On the other hand if a man is abusive then stop feeling guilty now. It doesn’t matter if it’s verbal or emotional. You don’t need this in your life.

    Get a clear picture in your mind of you being and doing without him. Make that picture clear and vivid. See yourself happy without him. See yourself living exactly as you like. Work on that picture in your minds eye until all feelings of guilt have evaporated.

  • Ask For Help
    Don’t be shy to ask for help when you’re looking for ways to end a relationship. Usually girl friends are willing to help out. I know I have helped my friend pack her things.In that same spirit I’ve also asked her to help me out once.

    Asking family is also an option. Family can be of valuable assistance especially when kids are involved. I know many moms are delighted to have their grand children for a couple of days whilst their daughters sort out their lives. And usually kids are safe and feel loved while they’re with their grand parents.

    There are also womens organisations that are willing to offer legal assistance and a place to sleep when the situation is desperate.

  • Be Confident
    Remember why you’re ending the relationship. Stay focused on the thought of your new life with out him. Every time you have a feeling of fear or guilt recognise the feeling, acknowledge it and focus on where you are going. Keep your cool and your confidence will develop.

  • Talk Straight
    Tell him in no uncertain terms that you’re ending the relationship. A lot of women stay in relationships for years because they don’t mean what they say or say what they mean. When you tell him you’re ending the relationship – mean it.

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How To Attract Love

Saturday, March 15th, 2008

I got a question today from one of my readers asking me how you can make a man really love you. Well truth is you can’t.

You can expect to be loved but you can’t specify who it is that should love you.

The universe just works that way.

My recommendation is to sit down with a pen and paper and write down all the qualities you want in a man.

List them exactly. Get a clear mental picture of the kind of man you want to attract.

Does he have any particular looks or is that irrelevant?

Is he reliable? Caring?

Does he treasure and respect you as a person?

Is he fun?

Is he good in bed?

What emotions over come you when you are with him?

Remember in what Wallace Wattles writes in Winning Love. He says to be loved we must be lovable.

What will your part be?

What role do you see yourself playing in when you meet your man?

If you want to attract a loving man then you should be just as loving.
If you want to attract a rich man doesn’t mean you have to be rich but you should have the qualities a rich man is looking for.
You cannot make anyone love you.

Just as you wouldn’t want any one to force you to love them.

But you certainly can attract love from a man that will be right for you.

Here is a perfect video to help anyone think about the kind of relationship they wish to attract.

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How to Understand a Man

Friday, March 14th, 2008

Men are so simple. It’s us women that over complicate things.

Here’s some translations that will help you understand exactly where he is coming from:

“IT’S A GUY THING”
Translated: “There is no rational thought pattern connected with it, and you have no chance at all of making it logical.”

“CAN I HELP WITH DINNER?”
Translated: “Why isn’t it already on the table?”

“UH HUH,” “SURE, HONEY,” OR “YES, DEAR”
Translated: Absolutely nothing. It’s a conditioned response.

“IT WOULD TAKE TOO LONG TO EXPLAIN”
Translated: “I have no idea how it works.”

“I WAS LISTENING TO YOU. IT’S JUST THAT I HAVE THINGS ON MY MIND.”
Translated: “That girl standing on the corner is a real babe.”

“TAKE A BREAK HONEY, YOU’RE WORKING TOO HARD.”
Translated: “I can’t hear the game over the vacuum cleaner.”

“THAT’S INTERESTING, DEAR.”
Translated: “Are you still talking?”

“YOU KNOW HOW BAD MY MEMORY IS.”
Translated: “I remember the theme song to ‘F Troop’, the address of the first girl I ever kissed, and the vehicle identification numbers of every car I’ve ever owned, but I forgot our anniversary.”

“I WAS JUST THINKING ABOUT YOU, AND GOT YOU THESE ROSES.”
Translated: “The girl selling them on the corner was a real babe.”

“OH, DON’T FUSS – I JUST CUT MYSELF, IT’S NO BIG DEAL.”
Translated: “I have actually severed a limb, but will bleed to death before I admit that I’m hurt.”

“I CAN’T FIND IT.”
Translated: “It didn’t fall into my outstretched hands, so I’m completely clueless.”

“WHAT DID I DO THIS TIME?”
Translated: “What did you catch me at?”

“I HEARD YOU.”
Translated: “I haven’t the foggiest clue what you just said, and am hoping desperately that I can fake it well enough so that you don’t spend the next three days yelling at me.”

“YOU KNOW I COULD NEVER LOVE ANYONE ELSE.”
Translated: “I am used to the way you yell at me,and realize it could be worse.”

“YOU LOOK TERRIFIC.”
Translated: “Oh, please don’t try on one more outfit, I’m starving.”

“I’M NOT LOST. I KNOW EXACTLY WHERE WE ARE.”
Translated: “No one will ever see us alive again.”

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Why you Shouldn’t Sleep with Him on the First Date

Saturday, March 8th, 2008

Why you Shouldn’t sleep with a Man on the First Date.

I know the title of this article will cause some ladies to turn up their noses in disbelief of what I’m writing because after all we’re living in a liberated age and it is 2008 already. Plus I have written before hand on how to have good sex, how to seduce a man, how to flirt with men and so forth.

Now I’m suggesting you shouldn’t sleep with him on the first date.

What’s going on here?, you may be asking yourself.

What’s going on is that a man thinks, “she’s too easy.” Even if you’re connecting really well and you feel like you’ve known him for a hundred years on the first date I’m suggesting that you should not take that step.

Why I’m suggesting this is because I want to protect you from getting hurt and not because I want to uphold a false sense of morals. I’m not square and I’m not holy. I’m a full blooded woman who has also made the mistake of bedding a man too soon.

The point is that all the women I have spoken to on the subject of dating men have revealed to me that they sleep with men on the first date because they feel so connected. They also admit that they feel terribly hurt when he never calls again. I know I’ve been in that place before.

The reason he doesn’t call again is because he got what he wanted. The men I have interviewed have all told me that well if they can get sex they won’t say no.

Men are designed by nature to want sex whereas women want love and think by having sex they’re partaking in love.

It’s confusing I know. In some cases having sex the first time doesn’t mean he won’t call you but it can mean that it will be a relationship based on only connecting sexually. That’s fine if you want that but if you’re looking to meet a man that you can enter into a committed relationship with then you’ll require something more than just a sexual attraction.

I’m not even putting a time line on when you should have sex for the first time because in truth individuals are all different and relationships develop differently.

All I ask of you is to think whether you want him to call again or whether you want to be the one night stander. The chances are that even if you don’t sleep with him the first time is that he won’t call you again anyway. But then won’t you be glad that you didn’t sleep with him? And don’t go thinking he didn’t call you again because you didn’t sleep with him.

Not going to bed with him the first time is a sign of self respect.

Most people forget what sex actually is. In the bible it’s referred to as the becoming of one flesh. Bodily fluids are being exchanged on the most intimate levels. Do you really want to chemicalise with some body you don’t know that well yet?

I see it this way: my body is the temple of my soul – I’m just not going to let anybody in there until I know what their intentions are.

Me, I personally have been in a committed relationship for over 5 years now but remember only even kissing him for the first time when I knew that the friend ship was bonded.

I know there is a lot of seduction advice especially for men. They teach men to not be one of those men where women say, “let’s just be friends.” Rather they teach men how to seduce a woman so that she succumbs and goes to bed with him as quickly as possible.

For me personally friendship is important – I want the man I’m sleeping with to be my friend as well. I can’t imagine having a good relationship with a man that is only based on sex. Believe me, I was there for many years – waiting for him. When he did visit all we did was have sex. Those were not happy years.

So next time you meet a wonderful man and get that connected feeling just remember what you read today in this blog.

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Now that you’ve had a man’s point of view I trust you won’t think I’m such a square!

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Please him Orally

Friday, March 7th, 2008

I trust that this article won’t come across as offensive. It’s just that many women ask me how they can please their men.

The Latin word for what I’m about to tell you is Fellatio. In every day language this is known as blow job, giving head and coming down on him. But this must be done thoughtfully or he won’t enjoy it.

Porno movies are not the right example. Those men have been trained to ejaculate on demand and the damsels giving the fellatio are also only following the director’s commands.

In real life men also like to be treated with love and care.

The reason men love oral sex so much is because they are so penis conscious. By giving him fellatio you are showing appreciation of his male part and of course him.

So then how do you go about driving him into the throws of ecstasy?

Most important is to have the right mindset.

Just sticking his shaft in your mouth and going up and down won’t give him pleasure and will give you a reason to gag.

Look demurely into his eyes from down there.By looking into his eyes you are communicating with him and you’ll be able to see his face as he goes into ecstasy.

Enjoy the moment.

Then you can begin to get a firm grip on his scrotum and put your mouth around the head. Give long licks all along the underside of the scrotum. Lick the head area as though you were licking your favorite ice cream on a hot summers day. You’ll be able to recognize whether you’re making him feel good by his reactions. If you notice that he is not overly excited change the rhythm of your licking and hand actions.

Biting and yanking back the foreskin are not a good idea. Pumping hard as though you were blowing up a balloon won’t do it either.

Also pay attention to the rest of his body.

To create a special sensation when he’s about to ejaculate apply pressure to the prostrate gland. This is located between the anus and scrotum. You’ll feel a jerking movement when this happens.

There are many ways in which you can give your partner oral pleasure without having the penis penetrate into your throat.

A deep throat experience is very pleasurable for your partner but will take some practice. It’s something you probably won’t get right the first or second time.

Enthusiasm will turn your man on more than just dishing out techniques.

blowbyblowFrom a woman’s point of view I can only tell you that you’ll reap many rewards from giving your partner oral sex. You’ll notice a huge return of investment!

My suggestion is you get yourself a copy of  Blow by Blow which is the only book I could find any where which explains the nuances of giving a good blow job in an easy to read manner which is not offensive.

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Why It’s Called a Breakup

Thursday, March 6th, 2008

Article of the Day: by Amy Waterman, Relationships ExpertA few months ago, I read Greg Behrendt’s book on breakups, It’s Called A Breakup Because It’s Broken. I am a huge fan of He’s Just Not That Into You, and I expected great things from the sequel.

It disappointed me. Not because the information wasn’t ge ood. Not because the style wasn’t lively and engaging.

It was simply because nothing was revolutionary.

He’s Just Not That Into You revolutionized my perspective on dating. Friends who read it suddenly “got” why previous relationships had dissolved. Greg explains that the simple reason why some relationships stuck together and others didn’t was because the guys who are really into you want to be with you … no matter WHAT.

Why didn’t he call after the second date? He just wasn’t that into you.
Why did he dump you? Because no matter how he claimed he felt about you, he just wasn’t that into you.
Why should you not want him back? Because breaking up with you proved that he’s not into you as much as you deserve.

The latter is the entire topic of It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken.

How a woman deals with a breakup tests her emotional maturity more than any other scenario. In order to grow as a woman, you MUST learn how to deal with breakups well, without poisoning your ability to love again. That’s why studying this topic is so important.

At Triple O Relationships, we receive emails from so many women wanting to know how to get their previous boyfriend back. In fact, it would be fair to say that getting an ex back is one of the top three issues women hope we’ll solve.

The problem is that 99.9% of these exes aren’t worth having back. Many of them are abusive, have a personal life in shambles, are already with another woman, or have proven through their actions that they’re unable to act in a mature way in a relationship or make the commitment to trying to become a better person and partner.

Yet these women would prefer to be with an imperfect partner than to be alone. Of course they would.

We all prefer the demon we know. Being single again means facing the dating scene, the lack of someone to depend on, no one to cuddle with, and putting on false bravery to one’s friends. It is stressful, lonely, and hard to be single. It’s an emotional challenge to feel fulfilled when there is no “special someone” in your life to whom you can give the gift of your abundant love.

But Greg’s answer to the situation isn’t adequate, either.

In his book, Greg tells us, “You deserve better than that ex of yours. He just wasn’t that into you; otherwise, he wouldn’t have broken up with you. Never settle for that. Demand a man who’s truly into you.”

Is getting over a breakup really that simple?

I don’t think it is.

Don Miguel Ruiz, in The Mastery of Love, explains that the amount of abuse we tolerate in a partner is equal to the amount of abuse we heap on ourselves. If a woman is used to telling herself that she’s ugly, that she fails at everything she tries, and that she’s not capable of performing in the world without someone holding her hand, then she’ll accept–and even feel most comfortable with–a man who reinforces these beliefs.

For example, if your partner makes a cutting comment about the horrible dinner you cooked that night, and one of your beliefs about yourself is that you are a bad cook, then you will accept his comment and berate yourself even more for not being better in the kitchen. If, on the other hand, you feel quite self-assured about your competence in the kitchen, you will challenge him on it and refuse to let his rudeness slide.

As a result, many women find it difficult to set higher standards for themselves in the dating world without re-evaluating how well they treat themselves.

Women who have a litany of negative self-comments running through their heads will accept partners who criticize them.

Women who don’t value or respect themselves will accept partners who don’t value or respect them either.

So what should we do?

Greg does his best to pump up our self-esteem. He calls us all “Superfoxes.” He wants all of us women grieving over breakups to believe that we are totally hot babes who deserve princes. But (to point out the obvious) Greg doesn’t know each of his readers personally. Greg’s belief that I am a Superfox isn’t enough to transform whatever personal beliefs I have inside about myself.

The 000 Relationships perspective on breakups is much more simple. Yes, women need to improve their sense of self-worth. Yes, women need to set realistically high standards when choosing partners. However, the only thing that women need to know when a breakup occurs is this.

It wasn’t meant to be.

Can I repeat that? It wasn’t meant to be.

If he decides that he no longer wants to be with you, then clearly it wasn’t meant to be.

Let me explain.

A relationship is composed of two people. When one of those people backs out, then there is no longer a relationship. Even if the two people decide at a later date to get back together, they aren’t simply continuing the old relationship. That’s over. They are starting a new relationship, with new rules, that may be completely different from what they had in the past.

The number one thing women need when a breakup occurs is faith that things are happening as they are meant to happen, according to the Divine Plan that the Divine Power has for each one of us.

For me, my faith in the Divine helps me accept when life takes a different path to the one I desire. It doesn’t mean I’m fatalistic. On the contrary. When I am in a relationship, I am actively seeking to improve it, to be the best partner I can be, and to grow in love.

But I am in the relationship ONLY to give my gift of love and learn how to give that gift better. I am NOT in the relationship to ask for what I give to be given back to me.

Most people, unfortunately, operate on the barter principle of love.

I’ll give you love if you give me love.
If I give you love that isn’t returned, then you owe me.
If I give you love, and you throw it back in my face and walk away, then I have the right to hate you, because you’re a bad person for not wanting to accept my love.
That’s just plain ugly.

If you want to learn to face a breakup maturely and grow even more beautiful, more loving, and more open as a result, then this is what you need to do.

Love through the breakup. Love him. Love him even though he isn’t yours. Send all your love to him as best wishes for his future. Use the opportunity to grow in love and embrace all that was best in yourself when you were with him.

Don’t let the poison of the dying relationship enter your soul. Don’t take away from the relationship the arguments, the hurtful things he said or did, and the mistakes made. You can forget those now. It’s over.

Just take away the beautiful things. Take away how you felt in your best moments. Take away how you felt your heart open, how you learned to give him more than you’d ever given anyone else.

Then let him go with love.

I firmly believe that whatever happens, happens for a reason, and I trust that the reason lies in the Divine. I don’t have to know why a man broke up with me; I simply have faith that God is leading us both down the right path for each of us.

So when a man breaks up with you, all you need to do is recognize that this particular relationship wasn’t meant to be (even though you may start a new one later down the track with the same person) and let the decision rest with the Divine. Believe, if it helps, that he wasn’t the one who dumped you; it was the Divine Spirit acting through him for the benefit of you both.

It’s called a breakup because life has different paths for you at the moment. Breakups don’t have to hurt. They’re only about rejection if you make them about rejection. You have the power inside yourself to decide how you are going to make meaning of the end of your relationship.

If you are a mature woman, you will bid him goodbye and bless his future with all of your continued love, and then you will turn to the Divine and meditate on the what possible plan the Divine has for you that requires your newfound freedom.

If you are like most women, you will despise him, transform all the love you once had into hate, focus on the pain, and let your self-esteem plummet in the face of rejection.

Which choice do you prefer?

Amy Waterman
Host of “How to Be Irresistible to Men”
Learn More at:
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About the author:

Amy Waterman is a professional writer specializing in attraction, dating, and relationships. She has extensive experience in helping women find love with her insightful and powerful secrets into attracting love and making relationships work. She is currently the host of the latest edition of “How To Be Irresistible To Men,” which is part of the 000Relationships Network.

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Makes a lot of sense to catch your man when he’s doing nothing when you want him to open up.

Man of the Day – Richard Branson

“Richard is good-looking and very smart, which is sexy to start with. He also makes a billion dollars before breakfast—and still knows how to have fun.”
– Ivana Trump

I agree with Ivana.

What I like about Richard is that he is loyal to his family, good looking, sense of humor and operates his business with a sense of integrity.

Here’s a vid of my team in South Africa preparing an event for Richard Branson’s Virgin Money Launch. It was taken a while ago but you’ll see how male orientated this business is – you’ll see Karen who is my girlfriend in Johannesburg and Bill who was the man who took me under his wing about 25 years ago and gave me my first job in the commercials industry. 

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These books are definately worth reading!

Sex Quote of the Day:

Don’t knock masturbation — it’s sex with someone I love.
Woody Allen

Blog of the Day:

Byron Katie is wonderful – she is the inventor of “The Work”. It’s a thought process where you help your self get out of pain by asking questions to yourself: Questions like:

  • How does that thought feel?
  • Is it true?
  • Who would you be without that thought?

Hmmm I read today she has cancer and I just love her for her attitude.

Girlfriend this is one special lady and her blog is a worth while read.

Recommendation of the Day:


Amy Waterman has developed a ground-breaking dating and relationships course that provides all women – single or attached, young or old, never married or divorced – with a “life coach”-style program to enhance their charisma, feminine presence, and irresistibility.

Amy covers topics such as:

Be more confident and feminine
Overcome shyness and self-doubt
Find Mr. Right amid a sea of Mr. Wrongs
Attract men in a way that suits any woman – no matter what her age!
Keep the fires burning in your relationship
Your customers will learn how to:

become the sort of woman to turn heads when she walks into a room
attract the right men for real relationships
keep from freezing up or scaring a man away
talk to men without letting shyness or self-doubt get in your way
keep a relationship hot no matter how long you’ve been together
Your customers will be impressed at both the quality of information as well as the volume of material in this comprehensive multimedia package. They’ll be able to watch the premium 2-hour video course online without needing to buy a DVD or download a huge file. (Versions for broadband and dialup connections, PC and Macintosh are provided.) Additionally, they’ll have the opportunity to review the concepts, work through exercises, and explore the concepts further in the 111-page workbook accompanying the course. That’s not even including all the bonus material!

The latest edition includes:

“How to Be Irresistible to Men” Premium 2-Hour Video Course
“How to be Irresistible to Men” Video Course Workbook
Sarah Paul’s Original “How to be Irresistible to Men” eBook
“Overcoming Shyness in Dating” eBook
“Surviving a Breakup” Audio Series
160-minutes Video Library – Watch online!
Personal Email Consultation
This multimedia package will enable subscribers to navigate their way successfully through the dating and relationships minefield armed with all the information they need to maximize their chances in attracting, dating, and keeping the men of their dreams.

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