I realised that my last post which was titled How To Seduce a Rich Man never really gave any information about how to actually seduce a man. Rather I was telling you all about one of my episodes I had with a rich man.
Seduction is no big deal – really it’s all about enjoying the sensation of the moment. It’s a natural phenomena between the sexes and not to be homphobic – it also happens amongst the bisexual and same sex people.
I’m sure you’ve been in a situation when you become aware that something is happening between you and him. Even if no words have been spoken. It could be the way he looked at you, smiled at you or introduced him self. It’s even more exciting when you feel magnetised back. That’s perfect timing for a seduction.
Sister don’t ever confuse the word seduction with sex!
Once you let him in and I don’t mean through the front door the game is over. Over and out.
All too often I’ve had crying girl friends cause he never came back and he never called again. Admittedly it’s not always this way. But that sheer antcipation of things to come is gone. And antcipation is seduction. Get that.
I’m quite aware that you could be rolling your eyes in disbelief. I mean we’re emancipated females, with our own bank accounts and we have sexual desires. So what’s up?
Besides who needs all this game playing – can’t we just be honest with each other and call a spade a spade? Sure a spade is a spade. no arguments. But a man is a man and a woman is a woman. You agree? Our hard wiring is different.
Man wants to pursue. Okay?
So I’m not for one minute saying you must ignore him and act like he’s invisible. No. No. That defeats the whole object.
Every body loves to be acknowledeged, so acknowledge him. Smile at him. Givig a real smile costs nothing and sends a message that says, “I approove – I like you, come closer, let’s communicate.”
Once you’re past handing out the phone numbers – I must tell you to let him phone you first. I mean you’ve already showed interest in that you’ve given your number. If he is interested he’ll call. You don’t need to call him. Get that? Mimi Tanner has written such a great book on the subject of calling men. I suggest you read it like now.
So anyway he’s called you and you’ve even gone out together a couple of times.
Now what I’m suggesting is saucy but it works, so listen up. Also I’m presuming you’re a grown woman and know whether you feel safe and secure in his company.
Next time he calls you, asking you out, you suggest that you’re not up for a big thing why doesn’t he come around for a movie.
When you open the door to let him in, be dressed in something casual but nice. Not your favorite holey pjamas or tracksuit pants with big T-Shirt. Like a red silk house suit. Well we call them that here in Vienna. No underwear. Have your perfume on and your hair clean and silky. If it’s long and you normally tie it up, have it open.
Have a delicious smell wafting from your kitchen. Like maybe the cookies that you’re going to be nibbling on during the movie.
If he snuggles closer to you during the movie, just enjoy it but don’t get into heavy petting – not yet. This is a full blown seduction remember?
After the movie you can both go to the kitchen for a cup of coffee or what ever. I don’t drink coffee. I would offer to juice him a glass of carrots.
Let him sit down first.
Then lean over him to pass him his drink.
Comment on on his after shave. Then massage his neck and shoulders for about 1 minute.
Then sit in your chair to drink your drink and tell him you have a really big day tomorrow, you need to get to bed early. Alone.
A decent man will respect that. Finish the converstaion and lead him to the door. Let him kiss you good night.
He will go home, thinking about you all night.
And of course you’ll also be thinking about him.
You’ve just seduced him.
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