Do you know what anorgasmia is?
The word itself reveals that it has something to do with orgasm. Anorgasmia means you have difficulty climaxing ie haveing an orgasm. Even if you are excited.
It’s not a pretty place to be.
In the past most sexual health research has been focused on men. Sex was more or less a duty women had to perform. This is very sad indeed.
Even though today women are being liberated from their apron strings surveys reveal that 10 to 15% of women have never had an orgasm alone or with a partner. Between 30 and 50% of women frequently miss out on orgasms! That means 40 to 50% of women are dissatisfied with their sex lives.
Some women say they cannot orgasm even with direct stimulation of the clitoris. Excuse me but we have to talk about this. Because orgasms are a great way to release tension and just feel plain womanly and pleased with yourself.
So I’ll fill you in on the details: There are 2 kinds of anorgasmia.
- Primary Anorgasmia
This means orgasm has never been attained under any circumstances and stimulation. - Secondary Anorgasmia
This means orgasm has been experienced in the past but cannot be attained anymore or only under specific circumsatances like when masturbating.
Anorgasmia can be treated. The first thing that needs to be done is to have a medical check up to ensure that illness isn’t the cause. Also it’s important to establish that it’s not an experience from the past like sexual abuse, for which I suggest you get councelling. A good therapist will free you from the emotions and fear that keep you in the past every time you have sex.
Don’t under estimate what stress can do your sexual libido. Get healthy and make time for yourself. Eat right. Exercise your body.
And by the way only 30% of women admit to having orgasms through intercourse. Most women need stimulation to their genitals, especially the clitoris to be able to come. It is possible that you aren’t reacting like you used because your sex life has become stale. Think of what is sexually exciting for you and communicate this with your partner. Women make the mistake of expecting men to be mind readers. They are not. Men want to please women. Some times you just have to show them what you want. You can do this without being vulgar. For example when he touches you in a place that makes you feel sexy let him know. Get over your embarrasment. Learn about your own body.
Men suffering from erectile dysfunction take viagra to get their penises stiff so they can perform sexually. Let’s face it this world has been geared towards mens comfort for far too long. Now you know me – I am not that kind of emncipated women that says we should burn our bras.(Although seriously I love the idea of not wearing one but I’m afraid my boobs do have a droop already. )
Us women are entitled to orgasms too. If we were not meant to have them we would not be born with the ability to have them. HerSolution is an oral supplement made from natural ingredients unlike Viagra which is a chemical substance from the pharma industry. HerSolution increases blood flow to the genitals and helps your body to create natural lubricant in times of dryness. (Tell me about it. Apparently every woman over 40 experiences that) It also balances hormones and increases sensations to help you reach orgasm. It is safe and effective to use with any medications you may be taking.
I admit I’ve been unorgasmic. What about you?
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