I’ll tell you something for nothing – I’ve never met a man that doesn’t enjoy dirty talk.
Now don’t go thinking I’ve had filthy conversations with all the males I know. No! I would be too embarrassed and they would run a mile. But I have questioned them and they have admitted to me.
But I do know that when I’m in a committed, passionate relationship I have fun talking dirty – it sure steams up the bedroom!
One of the biggest hurdles to talking dirty is confusion. You may ask yourself “What does my partner want” or maybe you ask yourself “Should I know how to talk dirty to my boyfriend/husband?” You might want to know what is going too far, and what isn’t going far enough? How do you even know that he will embrace your naughty vixen at all? If he’s dropped hints or talked dirty to you in bed, you’ve got a clue that he wants you to get a little raunchier. But for the beginner who isn’t sure where to go from here, the whole idea of dirty talk can be intimidating.
Many women are totally silent during sex they don’t even make an ahhh or an ooh. I can only think this must be because:
- Either you’re not really being turned on and therefore don’t feel a thing.
- Or you are shy and inhibited and feel to self conscious to get vocal.
Some women let out gasps of desire but still don’t give real dirty talking to their men. You don’t have to be vulgar and use language that you find offensive to talk dirty.
You can say innocent things like:
- I love feeling you deep inside.
- Your tongue drives me wild.
- I think I’m going to heaven.
- I never had a man touch me that way before.
- I love the way you touch me.
- I feel like I could scream the house down with passion
As you see not once has a real dirty word been said.
Of course if you feel really hot and turned on feel free to use even naughty words. You’re a big girl now and nobody is going to wash out your mouth with soap!
Dirty talking doesn’t have to be confined to between the sheets. Why not get him hot before?
The kitchen is a great place to get talking dirty. Catch his eye and gently stroke the cucumber you plan to cut into his salad. Got a tomato? Make a point of picking up a big chunk and taking a bite, letting the juice drip onto your lips, then suck it off. Maybe this is a good time to tell him how “juicy” and “tasty” and “rich” it is. Perhaps licking that dollop of cream from your thumb and giving him a wink will get his attention. “It tastes so sweet – almost as sweet as you,” will get his mind going in the same direction as yours!
Talking Dirty On The Phone
Talking dirty on the phone is a big business! Let’s face it; people are paying good money for it all the time. Out of all of the places that there are to talk dirty to your man, doing it on the phone has got to be one of the easiest. It’s always easier to do something when there is no face to face contact. Release any inhibitions that you may be facing and get down to business with your man. Tell him that you are touching yourself, which is sure to get his motor going. Give him a few moans and a couple of whispers and remember that delivery is everything. The more that he feeds into it, the more that you will feel comfortable with it and allow yourself to continue on in a natural manner. When it comes to referring to breasts and penises, use the words that you find most comfortable to you. There are a lot to choose from that’s for sure!
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