Archive for February, 2009

What Every Woman Should Know

Wednesday, February 4th, 2009

I admit what I’m about to post isn’t penned directly from me, my cousin sent it me. You know one of those emails that goes around so maybe you’ve read it before. I hadn’t until I got it. But what struck me about is the simple truth  of it. This is really what every woman should know:

womanA WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
enough money within her control to move out,
rent a place of her own,
even if she never wants to or needs to…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …
something perfect to wear whether the employer,
or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ……
a past juicy enough that she’s looking forward to
re-telling it in her old age….

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ……
one friend who always makes her laugh…. and one who lets her cry…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ……
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems,
and a recipe for a meal,
that will make her guests feel honored…

A WOMEN SHOULD HAVE…
a feeling of control over her destiny…..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
how to fall in love without losing herself..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
how to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend without;
ruining the friendship….

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
when to try harder… and WHEN TO WALK AWAY…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
that she can’t change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
that her childhood may not have been perfect…but its over..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
what she would and wouldn’t do for love or more…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
how to live alone….. even if she doesn’t like it…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW..
whom she can trust,
whom she can’t,
and why she shouldn’t take it personally…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
where to go…
be it to her best friend’s kitchen table…
or a charming inn in the woods…
when her soul needs soothing…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. .
what she can and can’t accomplish in a day ….
a month…and a year…

The Secret of Driving a Man Wild with Passion

Tuesday, February 3rd, 2009

It’s quite simple really – blow him!

Blowing him means giving his private parts some loving with your mouth.

The thing is though that we don’t come into this world just knowing how to do things properly. We have a sense of  wanting to be ackowledeged, be kind to others etc. When we bloom into our adulthood we discover all sorts of new feelings and desires that can’t be explained by any physics teacher.

Certainly we are intrigued with the idea of sex but all the social taboo that comes with it often causes us to never really know who we are and what we want. We daren’t even think dirty thoughts like sucking on penises. Well that’s how it was for me. I had seen both my parents naked but still I was given the impression that nice girls don’t talk about sex and boys go after it. And the girls that are doing it with the boys are sluts.

So certainly I had no knowledge what to do, my mom didn’t tell me and neither did my dad. Which is the right way I suppose. Because sadly some youngsters are forced to learn these tricks to please some sallivating sick adults. So I reckon that if you grew up kind of square like I did you were also in the dark about sex.  It’s like that statement Joan Rivers made: “I blame my mother for my poor sex life. All she told me was, ‘the man goes on top and the woman underneath’. For three years my husband and I slept on bunk beds.”

So when I discovered that you could be french kissed down there and kiss back all I could see was my mother frowning at me. I was torn between guilt and desire.

When I finally let my desire over ride my guilt and felt a tongue down there I was blown away with the sensation. Naturally I wanted to respond and give back. I was astounded with his reaction, I had never experienced him this passionate before. I just knew I had to master the art of giving a blow job.

But where to find out? My girlfriends aren’t experts and ask my mother? No Thanks.  All I knew is that my man loved it.  The only clues I got about whether I was doing this properly was  by the sounds he was making and the things he was saying to me.

I knew that I wanted to really blow him at the next opportunity.  Then I found it – Michael Webb’s Blow by Blow. Alll about giving blow jobs. Where to press, where to suck, how to keep him hard. What a treasure of information.

Anyway here’s a video I found on YouTube by a fun lady showing how to give a blow job. Don’t worry it’s fun and not offensive. She has a good tip but she would know even more if she would read blow by blow.

And last but not least here’s me on video too:

Here is the link to Blow by Blow

So what do you think about blow jobs? Is it something you have tried? Do you enjoy giving them to your man?