I just read on the best sex writing 2009 blog that the orgasm gap bewteen men and women is quite huge.
What surprises me though is that women give oral sex to their male partners at all stages of the relationship. The ratio of oral sex is 4 to 1 in his favor! No wonder men are having more orgasms.
Hmmm, I have always thought that the women are the ones to be more reserved. Even though I’m not sexually reserved when I’m with my partner I know I’m not into blowing just any one. I have to be sure he’s clean, decent etc before I make those moves. Which prooves to me once again just because I feel the way about something does not mean every one else does!
It’s a fact that women need their clitoris stimulated to have an orgasm. Deep penetration can reach the G-Spot. But fact is most women would be really happy to have a real good clitoral orgasm. Seems to me that nobody wants to talk about it – even in this day and age.
The researchers even go so far asto say: The male psychology on women’s orgasms is comparable to their psychology on housework: Men don’t pull their weight on either front because no one makes them.
I’m not a man basher – I adore men but we as women have to show them how our bodies work. Most men do not know – their mothers don’t tell them and I’m guessing their fathers don’t either. And we women have to stop thinking if he loved me he would know.
Now I understand that men and women function differently, men do seem to orgasm a lot easier than woman and don’t seem to care if their is no kissy kissy, lovey dovey stuff. Even if you have a man that cares about your orgasm notice how easily he can come.
Dr. Lloyd says, “Stimulation of the clitoris is what gives a woman an orgasm. It’s the center of orgasmic function.The clitoris is the homologue of the penis—they have the same tissue. In embryos, the same organ that turns into the penis, turns into a clitoris.”
So dear reader if you’re going to get serious about your orgasm then take responsibility. Get to know your own body and let your partner know what turns you on. Don’t be shy!
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