Feb 3, 2009

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The Secret of Driving a Man Wild with Passion

It’s quite simple really – blow him!

Blowing him means giving his private parts some loving with your mouth.

The thing is though that we don’t come into this world just knowing how to do things properly. We have a sense of  wanting to be ackowledeged, be kind to others etc. When we bloom into our adulthood we discover all sorts of new feelings and desires that can’t be explained by any physics teacher.

Certainly we are intrigued with the idea of sex but all the social taboo that comes with it often causes us to never really know who we are and what we want. We daren’t even think dirty thoughts like sucking on penises. Well that’s how it was for me. I had seen both my parents naked but still I was given the impression that nice girls don’t talk about sex and boys go after it. And the girls that are doing it with the boys are sluts.

So certainly I had no knowledge what to do, my mom didn’t tell me and neither did my dad. Which is the right way I suppose. Because sadly some youngsters are forced to learn these tricks to please some sallivating sick adults. So I reckon that if you grew up kind of square like I did you were also in the dark about sex.  It’s like that statement Joan Rivers made: “I blame my mother for my poor sex life. All she told me was, ‘the man goes on top and the woman underneath’. For three years my husband and I slept on bunk beds.”

So when I discovered that you could be french kissed down there and kiss back all I could see was my mother frowning at me. I was torn between guilt and desire.

When I finally let my desire over ride my guilt and felt a tongue down there I was blown away with the sensation. Naturally I wanted to respond and give back. I was astounded with his reaction, I had never experienced him this passionate before. I just knew I had to master the art of giving a blow job.

But where to find out? My girlfriends aren’t experts and ask my mother? No Thanks.  All I knew is that my man loved it.  The only clues I got about whether I was doing this properly was  by the sounds he was making and the things he was saying to me.

I knew that I wanted to really blow him at the next opportunity.  Then I found it – Michael Webb’s Blow by Blow. Alll about giving blow jobs. Where to press, where to suck, how to keep him hard. What a treasure of information.

Anyway here’s a video I found on YouTube by a fun lady showing how to give a blow job. Don’t worry it’s fun and not offensive. She has a good tip but she would know even more if she would read blow by blow.


Here is the link to Blow by Blow

So what do you think about blow jobs? Is it something you have tried? Do you enjoy giving them to your man?

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  1. Hello Claudia,
    thank you for being so open about BJ’s.

    I just love to give and receive them but am ever so ashamed of admitting it.

    My sister and I were actually being brainwashed by our mother who kept on telling us that making love is something filthy and dirty and that men are all swines and just want to get their fun outta you.

    But this not true and now I am addicted to having good, steamy sex and just let go of myself (and give all my private parts).

    Keep up with motivating us women, Claudia!

  2. Hello Bets,

    Yes this a problem many women encounter. There is a huge stigma attached to women wanting sex just for fun. Even if you are married or have been living with a man and have children with him. And if you think about it, it is a perfectly natural feeling or wouldn’t have these desires.

    I don’t encourage my daughters to be easy with giving away sex but I have told them that is something a man and a woman do and should do to deepen their relationship.

    I am also of the opinion that the pill was the greatest invention ever because it freed up women to enjoy sex without procreating. But back to our original subject of blowjobs: You can’t get pregnant from a blow job!

    Thanks for your comment

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