I noticed to my dismay when checking my web stats that a few people land up on this blog because they want to know how to seduce a married man.
Seducing a married man is the same as seducing any man but why the hell would you want to knowingly seduce a married man? Unless of course you enjoy suffering cos ultimately you will feel pain.
It may appear exciting and even convenient in the beginning. A juicy relationship without the committment. You never have to wash his shirts, pick up his socks or comfort him.
Eventually you’ll feel pissed off about him being married.
You’ll be wondering if he’s sleeping with his wife when he’s not with you. Christmas and other holidays will feel lonely.
I’ve never seen a happy outcome. I have women and men friends that have got them selves into a mess by being involved with some one else. The men i know who have been involved have all confessed to me when the “other woman” starts nagging about his other life they feel more compelled to end the affair, rather than leave the wife.
Seducing a married man is no different to seducing any man. I wrote the Seduction Diva’s Cheat Sheet which is an easy way of seducing a man. But beware because seduction doesn’t mean you’ll be winning his love.
All too often women are upset that the man they’re having sex with isn’t really giving them what they really desire – love, respect, devotion and honesty.
Before you go seducing the married man remember that he has officially devoted him self to another woman and you will be his secret liason.
I do believe married men are unhappy with their wives or they wouldn’t be seducable in the first place. Even so he is still officially married to his wife – he has to deal with his own feelings of guilt.
In my opinion it’s best to save your seduction power for available men.
Anon 2011/01/04 at 7:13 pm,
To say that you are playing with fire is an understatement, just go visit of a few of the myriad of infidelity related websites and read the messages of devastation that affairs have caused. As a survivor of an affair that my ex-W had, I can tell you, that aside the death of a love one, it is the most gut wrenching experience a human being can go through. It devastates ALL parties involved (the betrayed, the cheater and most of all the innocent children).
If you truly care about your marriage and your family, then please change pediatricians ASAP and talk to your H about this nearby-miss experience. It is safe to say that despite your claims of him being your best friend, he is totally oblivious to this situation. Even if there is no improvement in the sexual intimacy department of your marriage, there is the possibility that an ‘agreement’ could be reached by the two of you to have your sexual needs be discreetly met without resorting to lies and deceit which are what ultimately destroy a marriage.
I’ve since remarried and have forgiven my ex-W for her betrayal (for my benefit and those of our kids, not hers). I will leave you and pray that you take my advice. Take care.
P.S. A year after my divorce became finalized, I received an e-mail from my ex-W basically stating that she regreted not coming to me to talk and to try to resolve the issues in our marriage before she chose to have her affair. In her words “If I had, there is a good chance that we might still be married, growing old together and seeing our children grow up with both parents in love with one another”.
I found out my husband of 17 years was cheating. He denied it and refused to discuss anything with me but said he would never divorce me. So, I kicked him to the curb and divorced him. Cheaters never change. Other women beware; if he’ll do it with you he’ll do it to you.
Actually, I was hoping to find information on how to seduce my husband of 27 years.
While I didn’t find what I was looking for, I was really amused by your little trap for tramps. Cute! 
For those who DO want to know how to seduce a married men- the answer is simple and not as immoral as this lady would assume, as good as her intentions are. The answer is so simple, in fact, it does not require books, or intense training, or even truly immoral behavior.
Be kind to him.
No, seriously. Men who stray from the marriage bed are looking for the one thing that a wife typically forgets to provide:
Kindess and support.
Some women might make the mistake of mothering her husband- even if she doesn’t nag him, she may emasculate him. Others make the mistake of spending so much time obsessing over remaining beautiful or becoming beautiful in order to keep her husband that she forgets that she IS beautiful to him, or he wouldn’t have married her to begin with.
Never try to become a wife, if your intention is to be a mistress. If you intend to steal a married man away and marry him yourself- you will find yourself alone and as bitter as his first wife.
But if you want him for a good time, for as long as you’re attracted to him? Take a deep breath, make direct eye contact and smile at him.
That’s truly all it takes. Married men who cheat are SO starved for love that they are easily tempted by pure kindness and that puppy love they remember vaguely from before they got married.
Sex isn’t the issue- men can masturbate, and married men who are bored but remain faithful aren’t tempted because sex isn’t the important thing.
LOVE is.
(And you, wifies… take that message to heart and remember to cherish your husbands- or someone else will.)
Seducing your husband should be done in the same way as seducing any man: subtle, kind and charming!
Hi AnOtherWoman,
Thanks for dropping by, your advice is true. Alas, i must confess that unfortunately there are men out there who have wonderful wives but want to taste many women and will always be looking for opportunity.
Why is ur website not giving us relevant information..there is married man I want to seduce…who knws it might be ur husband
Hi! I need an advice! I guess you can help me.
I adore a married man who are 13 years older than me.
I love him very much even I know that he has pretty woman and children. I love him so much that I don’t want him to divorce. I just want to be loved by him, nothing more, I want to love him in secret even within any perspective. Every moment I think and dream of him and it’s becoming unbearable any more.
What can I do to attract him?
It is time you wake up!! Listen to what you are saying! you can get yourself out of the obsession. Its mind over matter. If you decide to move on you will succeed.
you what galfriend just be yourself nuture,love and dont show him that you are nothing without him give him that sense of independency i am telling you he will be in love with you more and more i was also in that situation dating a married man but today we are married if i listened to what myhead was telling me iwill not be married today