I know a lot of ladies desire to get a man they can make a deep connection with. (And I don’t mean that sexually, although that is an added advantage. And just by the way what is wrong with wanting a man that fulfills you emotionally and sexually?)
But how do you go about finding that special man?
Via an online meeting place. Now before you start rolling your eyes and shaking your head, may I ask you why not?
I mean these days people spend a good amount of their time online, so it stands to reason that you may as well meet somebody online. Sure there are jerks online, but there are jerks every where. You have to choose unjerky ones.
Emily McKay is a great example of having met her dream man online. By the way Emily is totally fun and cute. I’ve interviewed her twice you can listen here.
Emily knows a thing or 2 about how to choose the man that is right for you. Her methods may even seem cold blooded, especially when she suggests the spread sheet thing. Seriously she says you should evluate the men from 1 to 100. The guy who has the hundred points after you’ve evaluated him for all his traits – (each trait has it’s own amount of points) is the man for you. For example you draw up a spread sheet that goes something like this:
- Telling the truth – now you know he has lied to you before so you give him 50 points out of a hundred.
- Punctual – so although he’s lied to you, up until now he was always on time so you give him a 100 points.
- Attraction - you feel a bit attracted but it’s not like, oh my God, get moist between the legs just thinking about him, so you give him 60 points.
She has a whole list of very important things you should be looking out for.
Besides knowing what you should be looking out for, she knows how to write a good online profile which will attract men.
Here’s some vids of her, giving her coy advice. She is too cute – no wonder Scott adores her. Scott by the way is the kind of man you want: masculine, respectful, intelligent and good looking. I also have one of those in my house. (Okay he is getting a bit plump but he’s still adorable & I wouldn’t change him for Brad Pitt. He says his spare tyre is a sign of happiness & contentment to be with skinny old me.)










Hi! I really need some advice on this guy who had me all confused I made some assumptions and conclusions about him, but I really need an expert’s advice. It’s kind of a long story, and it may sound really stupid when you hear it. But, I’m totally clueless when it comes to him, and I wonder if I acted correctly with him. I’m really asking this because, I wonder if there’s something wrong that I did with him, somewhere along the line to make him act so cowardly and a bastard with me. Please, can you help me? Thanks so much for your time and patience.
Hi Alexandra,
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Thanks for visiting.