A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide To Great Sex

The Caramel Sutra – Review

It’s not difficult to find romantic advice. It’s not a challenge to find information about great sex either. But it IS difficult to find romantic advice and information on great sex that’s specifically for large women.

Authors Andrea Rains Waggener and Nancy Anne Eltrich saw this void in the lovemaking literature arena and decided to put their expertise to use. They decided to write an e-book specifically for fat women.

A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide To Great Sex—The Caramel Sutra is a 171-page e-book written especially for big women. It’s a how-to guide that helps fat women not only accept their large size but put it to use in the bedroom, and beyond.

Written with a heavy dose of humor and just the right touch of raunchiness (enough to be fun but not enough to make most women uncomfortable), A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide is an easy read. It’s also a fun read.

Andrea and Nancy, who readily admit to being fat and also admit to having issues about that, readily share what they’ve learned about having great sex. (Both Andrea and Nancy are happily married and enjoy wonderful lovemaking with their husbands. Andrea’s marriage is relatively new. She’s been divorced previously. Nancy, however, has been with her husband for 28 years. She knows what it takes to keep the fires burning in a long marriage.) The combined knowledge of these two women is impressive and inspiring for any woman who doesn’t have the sexual relationship she wants.

If you want to get a look at the kind of information they have to share, sign up for their free 5-lesson course, The Big Beautiful Irresistible Lover Course and their Weekly Tantalizing Tips—Lovemaking Sexsteps for Having The Ultimate Lovemaking Experiences. They’re worth giving up your e-mail address for.

A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide covers these juicy topics:

• How to put aside old hurts and rejection so they don’t stop you from enjoying great lovemaking.

• Letting go of the past: why judgment and criticism must be barred from the bedroom and how to do it.

• Flirting: easy ways to enjoy all day foreplay.

• Encouragement: how to give it to your man in bed.

• Play: the reason play is essential to great lovemaking and how to turn your intimate life into a sexual playground.

• Aphrodisiacs: how simple foods can enhance your love life.

• Water: why it’s a big woman’s best friend and why it’s so good for your intimate relationship and how to use it to your best advantage.

• Dancing: the ways a big woman can use it set the mood for great sex.

• Adventure: why it’s so important to big women in the bedroom

• Hands: the best way to use your hands during lovemaking.

• Oral pleasures: the secret to using your mouth in a way that will drive a man wild

• Sexual positions: which ones are the best for big women

• Going beyond the bedroom: how you can rev up your sex life by taking your intimate fun out of the “boudoir.’

Each chapter includes an entertaining and informative combination of Andrea and Nancy’s personal experience and hands-on suggestions for how to use the ideas they share. In case you’re still not motivated to action, the end of each chapter includes Sexsteps—specific actions you can take to put into practice the concepts in the chapter.

A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide could change a big woman’s life if she puts the advice to good use. Andrea and Nancy don’t beat around the bush. They get to the good stuff.

The e-book has only two minor drawbacks:

1. Occasionally, it sometimes strays into territory that may seem old or clichéd. Some of the ideas in the book are kind of trite or overused.
2. Sometimes the advice in the book is too general, not as geared toward big women as it could be.

These problems aside, though, the book has enough good information to make it well worth its price. The bonus material, which includes a special report filled with specific beauty ideas and tips, a special report filled with romantic advice, more romantic tips in the form of an e-book by romance-guru Michael Webb—101 Romantic Tips, and two classic e-books—Hints For Lovers and Happiness and Marriage. The package also comes with a secret bonus that the authors claim can help improve your love life AND your waistline. I won’t spoil the secret—but I will say they do make good on their claims.

At $29.97, the e-book and its bonuses is a great deal. You’ll definitely get your money’s worth. The e-book has an open-ended guarantee so you don’t take any risk.

All in all, I highly recommend A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide to any big woman who wants to rev up her sex life or simply feel better about herself.

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How to Have Good Sex even if You are Big (Fat) Woman

Have you had it up to your eyeballs with falling in love?

Do you keep picking the wrong men?

And now you’ve decided to never ever fall in love again because all you get is a broken heart?

Seriously at this stage of my life I now know that landing up in suffering in the name of love was because I wasn’t tuning into what I really wanted. But we won’t talk about that now. Because it’s so damn hard to face up to one self isn’t it?

So lets take a look at Friskey’s suggestions on how to avoid falling in love:

1. Date only the wildly inappropiate.
   If you’re an early riser, date a party boy who’ll turn your mornings into misery. If you’re a Sporty Spice, trawl the local comic books store and land yourself a sweet dork who couldn’t arm-wrestle his way out of a Mylar bag (that’s what they store comics in, FYI). Eventually, the novelty of dating The Other will wear off, and you’ll be single again, but without any of the heartache that usually accompanies breakups.
2. Take up recreational complaining
   Whine about your health, your stress level, your childhood, the meal you just ate. If it exists, you can put a negative spin on it.
3. Pair the the bitching and moaning with bragging:
   If you’re artful enough, you can combine the two. “I’m so tired because I was out all night at a totally hot new restaurant, fending off some guy named Josh … something … Hartnett? Anyway, apparently he’s an actor. I don’t know because I don’t own a television. I’m far too busy with my literature to watch movies.”
4. Develop an annoying catchphrase and use it constantly:
   Why? “Cause I’m a GIRL!” or “Catch ya on the flipside!” are fairly effective man deterrents to call into play if a date is going too well. Extra points if you can combine it with an obnoxious hand gesture.
5. If, God forbid, you find yourself starting to really like a guy, pick out his negative traits:
   Believe me, even Mr. Right has a little wrong. It can be anything — his pecs might be too firm, his taste in cinema could be too smart, or maybe he’s just too good looking. I mean, who wants to go out with someone prettier than you?

   If you look hard enough, you’ll find something. Then, every time you start to fall, you can stop yourself by focusing on his ragged cuticles or sometimes-difficult-to-decipher French accent.

Phew no waaay could I put myself through any of that.  Me I’d rather date myself. I genuinely like myself. So call me precocious. See if I care. (Okay, okay.. I know you wrote that with a pinch of salt, now didn’t you, didn’t you Friskey?) But truth is there are hundreds of women that behave like that when they want to fall in love and have someone fall in love with them. And then wonder why they are falling in love and not being loved back.

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How to Avoid Falling in Love

There seems to be a huge misconception – in my eyes anyway that a feminist is an ugly bad tempered man hating woman.

Nothing is further from the truth. To me being a feminsit is being exatly that – being female.

I’ve always enjoyed being an independant woman with a mind of my own and quite frankly I don’t give a damn what people think of me – especially men: That doesn’t mean I dislike men. Not at all. I adore them.

The thing is I’m not into following your typical ways of what is considered to be feminine I guess.

I don’t walk around in 10 inch heels because I cannot walk freely in them. I don’t plaster my face with make up because I feel uncomfortable. I don’t pretend to be meek or unopinionated because I do have an opinion.

I’ve worked in an area which has been predominately male. I’m glad to see that more women are venturing into this field these days. (Producing movies)

I’ve learnt what works along the path of life as far as attracting real and sincere men as friends and lovers.

I also know that you can never make anyone love you but you can want and expect love.

I also know that seducing a man as such is easy.  Because when you think about it seducing means to distract or mislead from one’s usual intention. Remember Michael Jackson’s song Dirty Diana?  That’s pure seduction. But seduction does not guarantee a happy relationship in the long term.

Basically what I’m saying is that you can be a feminist and still seduce as many men you like.

One of my all time favorite women is Isabel Alendes. She calls herself a feminist too. She writes beautiful books that are full of passion and magic. She’s politically aware and she certainly has a mind of her own. She’s also had a man or 2 in her life.

Watch her give this fascinating talk on passion. Passion is what it’s all about in life.

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How To Seduce Men & Be A Feminist

Hhhmmn so many women are looking for ways to end relationships I decided it was time to offer my advice. It’s often times not easy to end relationships because they’ve become such a part of our life. Even abusive relationships tend to become part of the daily existance. Women adapt to situations, even becoming codependant although they secretly wished they knew of ways to end relationships.

So I have put together some tips.

• Evaluate Where You Stand
  It all depends on how involved you are in the relationship.

  Is it only a dating relationship where you go out together and maybe sleep over at ech other’s places?

  Is it a committed relationship where you are living together or married?

  Is the relationship beyond reconcilation?

  Is there a way you could talk it over?

  Could you forgive, could he forgive?

  If you’ve decided you want out regardless of anything then read further.

• Release Guilt Feelings
  If you are not getting what you want out of the relationship this is a good enough reason to leave. You are a free indivudual and do not have to feel guilty.

  I know it’s easier said than done, especially if he doesn’t want to break up. Maybe he’s even a nice man but you just feel bored of the relationship. It’s okay – it’s your life.

  On the other hand if a man is abusive then stop feeling guilty now. It doesn’t matter if it’s verbal or emotional. You don’t need this in your life.

  Get a clear picture in your mind of you being and doing without him. Make that picture clear and vivid. See yourself happy without him. See yourself living exactly as you like. Work on that picture in your minds eye until all feelings of guilt have evaporated.

• Ask For Help
  Don’t be shy to ask for help when you’re looking for ways to end a relationship. Usually girl friends are willing to help out. I know I have helped my friend pack her things.In that same spirit I’ve also asked her to help me out once.

  Asking family is also an option. Family can be of valuable assistance especially when kids are involved. I know many moms are delighted to have their grand children for a couple of days whilst their daughters sort out their lives. And usually kids are safe and feel loved while they’re with their grand parents.

  There are also womens organisations that are willing to offer legal assistance and a place to sleep when the situation is desperate.

• Be Confident
  Remember why you’re ending the relationship. Stay focused on the thought of your new life with out him. Every time you have a feeling of fear or guilt recognise the feeling, acknowledge it and focus on where you are going. Keep your cool and your confidence will develop.

• Talk Straight
  Tell him in no uncertain terms that you’re ending the relationship. A lot of women stay in relationships for years because they don’t mean what they say or say what they mean. When you tell him you’re ending the relationship – mean it.

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Ways to End Relationships

I got a question today from one of my readers asking me how you can make a man really love you. Well truth is you can’t.

You can expect to be loved but you can’t specify who it is that should love you.

The universe just works that way.

My recommendation is to sit down with a pen and paper and write down all the qualities you want in a man.

List them exactly. Get a clear mental picture of the kind of man you want to attract.

Does he have any particular looks or is that irrelevant?

Is he reliable? Caring?

Does he treasure and respect you as a person?

Is he fun?

Is he good in bed?

What emotions over come you when you are with him?

Remember in what Wallace Wattles writes in Winning Love. He says to be loved we must be lovable.

What will your part be?

What role do you see yourself playing in when you meet your man?

If you want to attract a loving man then you should be just as loving.
If you want to attract a rich man doesn’t mean you have to be rich but you should have the qualities a rich man is looking for.
You cannot make anyone love you.

Just as you wouldn’t want any one to force you to love them.

But you certainly can attract love from a man that will be right for you.

Here is a perfect video to help anyone think about the kind of relationship they wish to attract.

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