Are you wondering whether men want naked or hairy fannys?

Well according to my research men do like a hair free zone, especially for kissing and licking your honey pot. But not all men want a nunu that is completely naked. I’ve had men tell me a totally bare cookie is like looking at a very young cookie and they want to know and feel like they are with somebody that is legal.

Then on the other hand there are guys that love big hair. If it wasn’t so there wouldn’t be a whole niche in the porno industry for those that like it hairy.

As for me I keep it bare around the anus and actual cookie part with a racing stripe above. I find it is hygenic. But God gave us hair for a reason and that is to protect our intimate part. Considering wer’e highly civilised and not living our lives naked we don’t really need that hair. After all we’ve got Victoria’s Secret to cover up with.  My friend who loves going to nudist places keeps her natural bush, just trimmed neatly at the sides so those hairs don’t peek out onto her thighs when she is in a bathing suit.

So then let’s take a look at the different methods for keeping the hair styled down there.

Shaving

1. Before you get out the razor – stop. Get a pair of scissors and cut off the hair first. cut as close to the skin as you can. Other wise shaving will take a long time and cause you suffering. First cut hair with scissors.
2. Now that you’ve cut off as much hair as possible get ready to shave. You need to get your skin soft and free of irritants before you proceed to shave. The best way is to immerse yourself into a nice warm bath. The warm water will soften the hairs and your skin. You could also take a warm shower, spraying the warm water onto the are which you want to have hair free. Afterwards you should dry yourself and then begin the shaving ritual.  But I’ll admit I shave whilst I’m still in the bath.
3. You need to generously apply shaving cream to the genital area. Don’t use your mans shaving cream. If you must use his razor use one which he has already used or the blade will be to sharp. Use a shaving cream that is free of perfume. A  porno star told me that vaseline works wonderfully. I tried it out and it really did prevent rashes.  Take your time to shave your genitals. Shave in the direction of your hair. You may have to shave over the are more than once to get a completely smooth skin.
4. Rinse thoroughly with warm water.
5. Give your pubic area some loving attention with a good natural skin oil. Aloe Vera and vitamin E are wonderful for sensitive skins. If you are planning on a love making session after shaving then wash away all oils and lotions if you are using condoms to prevent pregnancy.  The reason being that latex is affected by lotions and oils, thereby becoming more porous.

Waxing
Is a method for removing the hair with warm wax. The procedure can be painful but when executed by a pro is over quickly. Also you are hair free for a couple of weeks and the new hair grows out less bristly than from a shaved job.

1. Brazialian
   This term was invented in Brazil where beauty salons offered to do a bikini wax removing hair around the anus and labia so that there was nothing sprouting out of the tanga.
2. Full Brazialian
   All the hair is removed, the genitals are completely naked – like the day you were born.

Bushy Cut

Tear Drop Cut

Flame Cut

Heart Cut

Did you know that naked vaginas first appeared in the 70′s in Britain? It was penthouse that first showed them.

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Hair Styling your Nunu

It’s come to my attention that many women have no idea how a penis functions. Yeah we all know it’s a genital that is used for urinating and having sex. But do you know what to do with a penis so that he is putty in your hands?

There is an art to handling a penis!

Even though men are tough on the outside they love special attention to their tool box.

The glans is  sensitive and especially the frenulum.

Most men born in Europe are uncircumsized. It is common for men in the USA and other countries to be circumsized.

Jewish men are circumsized due to religious reasons. If you read the old testament you’ll learn that men were required to get circumsized as a bonding act to God.

Diagram showing the difference between a circumsized penis and non circumsized penis

As you can see in this diagram a circumzised penis has had the foreskin removed.  In western countries this is done after birth. In some other countries circumsicion is a ritual that is done when boys become men. It is very painful.

Uncircumsized men are a lot more sensitive in the frenulum and glans area than uncircumsized men.

But all men love attention to their private part.

Michael Webb has written a great book ccalled blow by blow which explains to you how to give a man a great sexual experience with your mouth. Plus you get some great bonuses on how to give him a good hand job. These are wonderful techniques because firstly you can surprise him any where and you can’t get pregnant!

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Anatomy of a Penis

1. Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests find that when women make love they produce amounts of the hormone estrogen , which makes hair shine and skin smooth.
2. Gentle , relaxed lovemaking reduces your chances of suffering dermatitis , skin rashes and blemishes. The sweat produced cleanses the pores and makes your skin glow.
3. Lovemaking can burn up those calories you piled on during that romantic dinner.
4. Sex is one of the safest sports you can take up. It stretches and tones up just about every muscle in the body. It’s more enjoyable than swimming 20 laps , and you don’t need special sneakers!
5. Sex is an instant cure for mild depression. It releases endorphins into the bloodstream , producing a sense of euphoria and leaving you with a feeling of well-being.
6. The more sex you have , the more you will be offered. The sexually active body gives off greater quantities of chemicals called pheromones. These subtle sex perfumes drive the opposite sex crazy!
7. Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. IT IS 10 TIMES MORE EFFECTIVE THAN VALIUM.
8. Kissing each day will keep the dentist away. Kissing encourages saliva to wash food from the teeth and lowers the level of the acid that causes decay , preventing plaque build-up.
9. Sex actually relieves headaches. A lovemaking session can release the tension that restricts blood vessels in the brain.
10. A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose. Sex is a natural antihistamine. It can help combat asthma and hay fever.

Now you have no excuses – especially the one about the headache. (Seriously I’m astounded that women use the headache as an excuse.)

This was sent to me by cousin Bets.

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10 Good Reasons to Have Sex

When you’re in the midst of passion, anything can come out of your mouth. If you and your partner are into dirty talk, you might hear fantasies and desires that surprise or even shock you. How do you handle a dirty talk scenario that makes you wildly uncomfortable?

When the passion is over and your mind is clear, think about what was said. Why did it make you so uncomfortable? Did it bring to mind a bad memory? Did it make you wonder what your partner really wanted to be doing in bed at that moment? Did his desires make you feel bad about yourself? Whatever the reason, pinpoint it and write it down. Putting it on paper in black and white will help you work through the details of why you feel the way you do.

Consider how you will bring it up with your lover. If this is something that you feel you need to discuss, plan your approach. Make sure you present your concerns in a loving, non-judgmental way. If you are accusing at all, your partner will likely retreat into a self-conscious shell, and won’t bother telling you any more of those fantasies. That is a breakdown in communication, and that is not good!

Once you’ve chosen a way to approach the subject, do it when you are both relaxed and open to discussion. Don’t attempt to start the talk immediately after you’ve had sex – talk about killing the afterglow! Don’t do it when you are busy with other things, or when stress seems to have taken over your day. Approach your partner at a time when you know he will be open to what you have to say. Allow plenty of time for the discussion.

Keep in mind that your partner might not think anything is bothering you. His dirty talk could well have been completely spur of the moment, and he might not even remember what he said! If it was just something thrown out in the heat of the moment when he was experimenting with a few fantasies, you can chalk it up to nothing more than that and move on. If he admits the scenario he suggested is one that he wants to try, however, you’ve opened the door for discussing it.

Always be loving toward your partner as you discuss those fantasies. Remember that it took a lot of trust to get to this point, and the dirty talk between the two of you is so much hotter for it. You aren’t the only one who has heard things that might be shocking – consider that you might have dropped a few stunners along the way, and your lover has accepted them. Doesn’t he deserve the same consideration from you?

Finally, remember – the hottest dirty talk just might involve things you would never really do if the opportunity arose. Keep it all in perspective, and remember that your partner is the one in bed with you – the one who is focusing all his attention and dirty talk skills on you. You lucky little vixen!

More dirty talk examples

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When Dirty Talk With Your Lover is Over the Top…

A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide To Great Sex

The Caramel Sutra – Review

It’s not difficult to find romantic advice. It’s not a challenge to find information about great sex either. But it IS difficult to find romantic advice and information on great sex that’s specifically for large women.

Authors Andrea Rains Waggener and Nancy Anne Eltrich saw this void in the lovemaking literature arena and decided to put their expertise to use. They decided to write an e-book specifically for fat women.

A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide To Great Sex—The Caramel Sutra is a 171-page e-book written especially for big women. It’s a how-to guide that helps fat women not only accept their large size but put it to use in the bedroom, and beyond.

Written with a heavy dose of humor and just the right touch of raunchiness (enough to be fun but not enough to make most women uncomfortable), A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide is an easy read. It’s also a fun read.

Andrea and Nancy, who readily admit to being fat and also admit to having issues about that, readily share what they’ve learned about having great sex. (Both Andrea and Nancy are happily married and enjoy wonderful lovemaking with their husbands. Andrea’s marriage is relatively new. She’s been divorced previously. Nancy, however, has been with her husband for 28 years. She knows what it takes to keep the fires burning in a long marriage.) The combined knowledge of these two women is impressive and inspiring for any woman who doesn’t have the sexual relationship she wants.

If you want to get a look at the kind of information they have to share, sign up for their free 5-lesson course, The Big Beautiful Irresistible Lover Course and their Weekly Tantalizing Tips—Lovemaking Sexsteps for Having The Ultimate Lovemaking Experiences. They’re worth giving up your e-mail address for.

A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide covers these juicy topics:

• How to put aside old hurts and rejection so they don’t stop you from enjoying great lovemaking.

• Letting go of the past: why judgment and criticism must be barred from the bedroom and how to do it.

• Flirting: easy ways to enjoy all day foreplay.

• Encouragement: how to give it to your man in bed.

• Play: the reason play is essential to great lovemaking and how to turn your intimate life into a sexual playground.

• Aphrodisiacs: how simple foods can enhance your love life.

• Water: why it’s a big woman’s best friend and why it’s so good for your intimate relationship and how to use it to your best advantage.

• Dancing: the ways a big woman can use it set the mood for great sex.

• Adventure: why it’s so important to big women in the bedroom

• Hands: the best way to use your hands during lovemaking.

• Oral pleasures: the secret to using your mouth in a way that will drive a man wild

• Sexual positions: which ones are the best for big women

• Going beyond the bedroom: how you can rev up your sex life by taking your intimate fun out of the “boudoir.’

Each chapter includes an entertaining and informative combination of Andrea and Nancy’s personal experience and hands-on suggestions for how to use the ideas they share. In case you’re still not motivated to action, the end of each chapter includes Sexsteps—specific actions you can take to put into practice the concepts in the chapter.

A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide could change a big woman’s life if she puts the advice to good use. Andrea and Nancy don’t beat around the bush. They get to the good stuff.

The e-book has only two minor drawbacks:

1. Occasionally, it sometimes strays into territory that may seem old or clichéd. Some of the ideas in the book are kind of trite or overused.
2. Sometimes the advice in the book is too general, not as geared toward big women as it could be.

These problems aside, though, the book has enough good information to make it well worth its price. The bonus material, which includes a special report filled with specific beauty ideas and tips, a special report filled with romantic advice, more romantic tips in the form of an e-book by romance-guru Michael Webb—101 Romantic Tips, and two classic e-books—Hints For Lovers and Happiness and Marriage. The package also comes with a secret bonus that the authors claim can help improve your love life AND your waistline. I won’t spoil the secret—but I will say they do make good on their claims.

At $29.97, the e-book and its bonuses is a great deal. You’ll definitely get your money’s worth. The e-book has an open-ended guarantee so you don’t take any risk.

All in all, I highly recommend A Big Beautiful Woman’s Guide to any big woman who wants to rev up her sex life or simply feel better about herself.

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How to Have Good Sex even if You are Big (Fat) Woman

Hello again,

I apologise for my scarcity – I’ve been working on some videos which I wanted to upload for you but it didn’t work out so I’ll have to think of alternatives.

I trust I’m not offending you on this topic but I’ve had women ask me what to do about their vaginal odour.

Firstly let me assure you that vaginal smell is your greatest assest. I mean it. Men are totally turned on by  your personal smell. So don’t be embarrassed – I’m presuming of course that you don’t have unpleasant vaginal odour.

If your fanny is smelling rather loudly even after washing then you may have an odour problem.

And by the way washing too vigourously with soap is not a good idea. Trust me on this – I’ve done that and landed up having an itchy dry fanny .  My doctor told me that I’m washing all the good bacteria away.  You need all those bacteria to get wet and sexy!

Use a natural soap that is free of  industry left overs, like petroleum. Yikes. I sure hope you are reading what goes into your cosmetics. And when you wash your private parts gently does it, you don’t need to get soap “in there” and douching ain’t wise either.

A healthy body does not have anything smelly about it. Okay granted, not washing and sweating will cause some unpleasant smells. The biggest factor to stinky vaginal odour is health.  Coffee, cigarettes, alcohol, lack of sleep and processed foods take their toll on your health. Ultimately this shows up with all sorts of bad odours.

So eat lots of raw organic fruit and vegetables. Your health with improove, your energy will go up and your body wil find it’s natural weight. Your hair will shine and off putting vaginal odour will dissapear.

And just by the way if you want to seduce a man – take your vaginal juice and rub it behind your ears like you would with perfume. I’m presuming your juice doesn’t smell fishy . THis will drive your man wild or any man that comes close to you. And they won’t know why they feel so horny for you. I know it’s wicked. But you want tricks and I’m giving them to you. I suggest you only try this on a guy that’s already given you signals that he likes you. This will give him the signal back.

So that’s all for this Saturday.

I’m playing around with this blog – I’m not mad about the design, so you can expect some changes soon.

P.S. I nearly forgot – I found & read this great ebook that will finally give you freedom from that awful vaginal odour and excess discharge. In the book you’ll learn exatcly :

• What vaginal discharge is.

• Which mucus producing foods you should be avoiding or use sparingly.

• Tips on how to keep your vagina healthy and free from infection.

• The best way to clean your vagina and keep it healthy and fresh.

This is what one happy women are said about the book:

I am so happy, I only wish I had read your book 12 years ago. I haven’t done anything but clean myself the way you said to and practically overnight my life changed. I haven’t changed my diet, nothing at all. I feel like a brand new women, my confidence is back. This is amazing. If you ever need a testimonial I am your woman. I have spent thousands of dollars trying to fix this problem and I have seen specialists, naturopaths, homeopaths anybody and everybody. I followed special diets, cut out sugar, lived yeast free for a while, it was a nightmare.

Thank You so much,

Mel, USA

Check out all the information about the book here – it’s downloadable which means you can begin reading immediately!

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Dealing with Vaginal Odor

Are you wondering what under wear is appropiate to be a sexy vixen?

Truth is you don’t need to go prancing around in matching stockings and corsetts to drive a man wild.

There’s no denying that men are visual creatures but then I’m also visual. I also like to look!

It’s the attitude in the clothes and not clothes that drive men wild.  But you know that don’t you? I mean honestly do you find your man that much more sexier to look at if he’s wearing a thong?

Now don’t misunderstand dressing up is fun but it’s not a prerequisite to feel sexy and horny.

I know that my man is turned on when I’m starkers. Little frilly bits mean nothing to him. I’m kinda glad cause some of that stuff really scratches.  I like to wear cotton panties. Nothing fancy. And for him nothing. Just let my hair loose – it falls over my breasts and my nipples peep through. He loves it.

Sometimes I’ll walk into his office like that or go do gardening. Every time it works.

Then again I have a friend who hates wearing any panties. Yip she goes bare bum all the time because she dislikes scratchy stuff or panties creeping into the crevice of her butt. She says her man isn’t particurlary impressed with underwear either.

I guess the point I’m trying to make here is to be your authentic self. Nothing wrong with wearing fine underwear and enjoying it. If it makes you feel good then do it. But if you’re doing it to impress a man I fear it may be the wrong motivation. It’s like wearing high heels cause you think men like it, but actually you’d rather be wearing flat shoes. Nothing wrong with flat shoes – you can get very pretty and feminine ones.

So anyway here’s an old video of myself  for your amusement. It’s about which underwear to wear when you’re on a wild adventure. I mean a real wild adventure in the outdoors. I love adventure, especially Africa so this video I made for my African Wild Adventures Blog.

P.S. Actually I’m all for being naughty, even in the outdoors.

What’s your favorite underwear?

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Which Undies are Best?

Do you know what anorgasmia is?

The word itself reveals that it has something to do with orgasm.  Anorgasmia means you have difficulty climaxing ie haveing an orgasm. Even if you are excited.

It’s  not a pretty place to be.

In the past most sexual health research has been focused on men. Sex was more or less a duty women had to perform. This is very sad indeed.

Even though today women are being liberated from their apron strings surveys reveal that 10 to 15% of women have never had an orgasm alone or with a partner. Between 30 and 50% of women frequently miss out on orgasms! That means 40 to 50% of women are dissatisfied with their sex lives.

Some women say they cannot orgasm even with direct stimulation of the clitoris. Excuse me but we have to talk about this. Because orgasms are a great way to release tension and just feel plain womanly and pleased with yourself.

So I’ll fill you in on the details: There are 2 kinds of anorgasmia.

1. Primary Anorgasmia
   This means orgasm has never been attained under any circumstances and stimulation.
2. Secondary Anorgasmia
   This means orgasm has been experienced in the past but cannot be attained anymore or only under specific circumsatances like when masturbating.

Anorgasmia can be treated. The first thing that needs to be done is to have a medical check up to ensure that illness isn’t the cause. Also it’s important to establish that it’s not an experience from the past like sexual abuse, for which I suggest you get councelling. A good therapist will free you from the emotions and fear that keep you in the past every time you have sex.

Don’t under estimate what stress can do your sexual libido. Get healthy and make time for yourself. Eat right. Exercise your body.

And by the way only 30% of women admit to having orgasms through intercourse. Most women need stimulation to their genitals, especially the clitoris to be able to come.  It is possible that you aren’t reacting like you used because your sex life has become stale. Think of what is sexually exciting for you and communicate this with your partner. Women make the mistake of expecting men to be mind readers. They are not.  Men want to please women. Some times you just have to show them what you want.  You can do this without being vulgar. For example when he touches you in a place that makes you feel sexy let him know. Get over your embarrasment. Learn about your own body.

Men suffering from erectile dysfunction take viagra to get their penises stiff so they can perform sexually. Let’s face it this world has been geared towards mens comfort for far too long. Now you know me – I am not that kind of emncipated women that says we  should burn our bras.(Although seriously I love the idea of not wearing one but I’m afraid my boobs do have a droop already. )

Us women are entitled to orgasms too. If we were not meant to have them we would not be born with the ability to have them. HerSolution is an oral supplement made from natural ingredients unlike Viagra which is a chemical substance from the pharma industry. HerSolution increases blood flow to the genitals and helps your body to create natural lubricant in times of dryness. (Tell me about it. Apparently every woman over 40 experiences that) It also balances hormones and increases  sensations to help you reach orgasm. It is safe and effective to use with any medications you may be taking.

I admit I’ve been unorgasmic. What about you?

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Dealing with Anorgasmia

I’ll tell you something for nothing – I’ve never met a man that doesn’t enjoy dirty talk.

Now don’t go thinking I’ve had filthy conversations with all the males I know. No! I would be too embarrassed and they would run a mile. But I have questioned them and they have admitted to me.

But I do know that when I’m in a committed, passionate relationship I have fun talking dirty – it sure steams up the bedroom!

One of the biggest hurdles to talking dirty is confusion. You may ask yourself “What does my partner want” or maybe you ask yourself “Should I know how to talk dirty to my boyfriend/husband?” You might want to know what is going too far, and what isn’t going far enough? How do you even know that he will embrace your naughty vixen at all? If he’s dropped hints or talked dirty to you in bed, you’ve got a clue that he wants you to get a little raunchier. But for the beginner who isn’t sure where to go from here, the whole idea of dirty talk can be intimidating.

Many women are totally silent during sex they don’t even make an ahhh or an ooh. I can only think this must be because:

• Either you’re not really being turned on and therefore don’t feel a thing.
• Or you are shy and inhibited and feel to self conscious to get vocal.

Some women let out gasps of desire but still don’t give real dirty talking to their men. You don’t have to be vulgar and use language that you find offensive to talk dirty.

You can say innocent things like:

• I love feeling you deep inside.
• Your tongue drives me wild.
• I think I’m going to heaven.
• I never had a man touch me that way before.
• I love the way you touch me.
• I feel like I could scream the house down with passion

As you see not once has a real dirty word been said.

Of course if you feel really hot and turned on feel free to use even naughty words. You’re a big girl now and nobody is going to wash out your mouth with soap!

Dirty talking doesn’t have to be confined to between the sheets. Why not get him hot before?

The kitchen is a great place to get talking dirty. Catch his eye and gently stroke the cucumber you plan to cut into his salad. Got a tomato? Make a point of picking up a big chunk and taking a bite, letting the juice drip onto your lips, then suck it off. Maybe this is a good time to tell him how “juicy” and “tasty” and “rich” it is. Perhaps licking that dollop of cream from your thumb and giving him a wink will get his attention. “It tastes so sweet – almost as sweet as you,” will get his mind going in the same direction as yours!

Talking Dirty On The Phone

Talking dirty on the phone is a big business! Let’s face it; people are paying good money for it all the time. Out of all of the places that there are to talk dirty to your man, doing it on the phone has got to be one of the easiest. It’s always easier to do something when there is no face to face contact. Release any inhibitions that you may be facing and get down to business with your man. Tell him that you are touching yourself, which is sure to get his motor going. Give him a few moans and a couple of whispers and remember that delivery is everything. The more that he feeds into it, the more that you will feel comfortable with it and allow yourself to continue on in a natural manner. When it comes to referring to breasts and penises, use the words that you find most comfortable to you. There are a lot to choose from that’s for sure!

Want more help on Talking Dirty? Then Click HERE.

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Ever Thought about Talking Dirty to a Man?

It’s quite simple really – blow him!

Blowing him means giving his private parts some loving with your mouth.

The thing is though that we don’t come into this world just knowing how to do things properly. We have a sense of  wanting to be ackowledeged, be kind to others etc. When we bloom into our adulthood we discover all sorts of new feelings and desires that can’t be explained by any physics teacher.

Certainly we are intrigued with the idea of sex but all the social taboo that comes with it often causes us to never really know who we are and what we want. We daren’t even think dirty thoughts like sucking on penises. Well that’s how it was for me. I had seen both my parents naked but still I was given the impression that nice girls don’t talk about sex and boys go after it. And the girls that are doing it with the boys are sluts.

So certainly I had no knowledge what to do, my mom didn’t tell me and neither did my dad. Which is the right way I suppose. Because sadly some youngsters are forced to learn these tricks to please some sallivating sick adults. So I reckon that if you grew up kind of square like I did you were also in the dark about sex.  It’s like that statement Joan Rivers made: “I blame my mother for my poor sex life. All she told me was, ‘the man goes on top and the woman underneath’. For three years my husband and I slept on bunk beds.”

So when I discovered that you could be french kissed down there and kiss back all I could see was my mother frowning at me. I was torn between guilt and desire.

When I finally let my desire over ride my guilt and felt a tongue down there I was blown away with the sensation. Naturally I wanted to respond and give back. I was astounded with his reaction, I had never experienced him this passionate before. I just knew I had to master the art of giving a blow job.

But where to find out? My girlfriends aren’t experts and ask my mother? No Thanks.  All I knew is that my man loved it.  The only clues I got about whether I was doing this properly was  by the sounds he was making and the things he was saying to me.

I knew that I wanted to really blow him at the next opportunity.  Then I found it – Michael Webb’s Blow by Blow. Alll about giving blow jobs. Where to press, where to suck, how to keep him hard. What a treasure of information.

Anyway here’s a video I found on YouTube by a fun lady showing how to give a blow job. Don’t worry it’s fun and not offensive. She has a good tip but she would know even more if she would read blow by blow.

And last but not least here’s me on video too:

Here is the link to Blow by Blow

So what do you think about blow jobs? Is it something you have tried? Do you enjoy giving them to your man?

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The Secret of Driving a Man Wild with Passion