Archive for the ‘Sex Tips’ Category

How to Kiss Passionately

Saturday, July 5th, 2008
If you want to learn how to kiss, learn how to french kiss, or want unforgettable kissing tips for the first kiss, then read on…

You’re About to Discover Guaranteed Secrets That Will Make You the Best Kisser They’ve Ever Kissed!! … And Put an End to the Stress and Anxiety of Not Knowing What To Do When It Comes to Being a Fantastic Kisser!

If you’re wondering why I’ve posted this in the sex tips categorie it’s because in my opinion kissing is the beginning or the end of sex.

Now I’m not implying that after the first kiss you need to have sex. Oh no that would take all the fun out of the seduction.

And besides you are not obliged in any way to bed him if you don’t feel ready – even if the kiss has been terrific. It’s part of wetting his appetite for you. And it’s you getting to know him – intimately and slowly – on your terms.

A high quality man (that’s what you want don’t you?) will respect your decision and he’ll want to make the most of those kisses.

Seriously good kissing also goes down well with established couples. So thinking about pepping up your kissing is a good way to get some zoom zoom back in your love life.

In all honesty a kiss can make or break your feelings for him. Well then okay maybe I’m just speaking for myself then. But I think to myself if it does this for me then it’s possible it does that for him too – right?

Truth is there is so much in a kiss.

Even Cher sang about it way back when.

I found a video for you on Metacafe on how to kiss passionately.

These basic tips will get you going in the kissing department.

How To Kiss Someone PassionatelyThe funniest home videos are here

The thing is there’s a whole lot more to learn about kissing.

But who do you ask?

You can’t really practice on yourself and kissing yourself passionately in the mirror isn’t exactly pleasant is it? I mean what with the mirror being all hard and unyielding. Practicing with your pillow is about as exciting as making toast.

  • Are you sick and tired of wanting someone so badly, but being scared of taking things to the next level by kissing them?
  • Are you worried that you’ll make some sort of mistake when you’re kissing someone because you have no clue about what you’re supposed to be thinking about?
  • Do you need to learn how to french kiss?
  • Are you fed up with mediocre kisses that go nowhere?

If you answered yes to any of these questions you’ll need to take a little advice from a kissing expert.

These days with the internet being what it is – information from an expert is just a click away.

You know I review everything first before I make a public mention of it or i wouldn’t be of any assistance to my lady friends.

If some thing is good I rave on about it. If it sucks well then I just keep my mouth shut or in this case keep my fingers away from the key board.

Michelle Penny is THE KISSING EXPERT.

She can teach you what she taught me:

  • a failsafe way to set the mood for a kiss
  • how to get over those first-kiss nerves
  • a crucial part of kissing technique that almost EVERYONE overlooks!
  • killer techniques for an opening kiss
  • how kissing can strengthen your relationship
  • ways to build confidence as a kisser
  • what to do with the rest of your body when you’re kissing

The great part is , is that she reveals all this in her FREE 6 part Email Mini Course and Kissing News Letter.

That’s incredible value for FREE.

Now I’m not denying that she also has the most comprehensive book on kissing available in the internet.

It’s packed full of solid information about various kissing techniques.

No fluff.

Believe me once you’ve got him hungry for your kissing the rest is a walk on the beach.

Common at least get the FREE Mini course. What can you loose? There’s no strings attached.

CLICK HERE to go to Michelle’s Kissing101 site. Scroll down to the bottom and sign up for the FREE mini email Kissing Course.

And I just have to ask if you’ve got a FREE copy of Winning Love yet? All you have to do is give me your name and email adress and it’s yours. See in the top right hand corner? That’s me in the tiny video!

Please him Orally

Friday, March 7th, 2008

I trust that this article won’t come across as offensive. It’s just that many women ask me how they can please their men.

The Latin word for what I’m about to tell you is Fellatio. In every day language this is known as blow job, giving head and coming down on him. But this must be done thoughtfully or he won’t enjoy it.

Porno movies are not the right example. Those men have been trained to ejaculate on demand and the damsels giving the fellatio are also only following the director’s commands.

In real life men also like to be treated with love and care.

The reason men love oral sex so much is because they are so penis conscious. By giving him fellatio you are showing appreciation of his male part and of course him.

So then how do you go about driving him into the throws of ecstasy?

Most important is to have the right mindset.

Just sticking his shaft in your mouth and going up and down won’t give him pleasure and will give you a reason to gag.

Look demurely into his eyes from down there.By looking into his eyes you are communicating with him and you’ll be able to see his face as he goes into ecstasy.

Enjoy the moment.

Then you can begin to get a firm grip on his scrotum and put your mouth around the head. Give long licks all along the underside of the scrotum. Lick the head area as though you were licking your favorite ice cream on a hot summers day. You’ll be able to recognize whether you’re making him feel good by his reactions. If you notice that he is not overly excited change the rhythm of your licking and hand actions.

Biting and yanking back the foreskin are not a good idea. Pumping hard as though you were blowing up a balloon won’t do it either.

Also pay attention to the rest of his body.

To create a special sensation when he’s about to ejaculate apply pressure to the prostrate gland. This is located between the anus and scrotum. You’ll feel a jerking movement when this happens.

There are many ways in which you can give your partner oral pleasure without having the penis penetrate into your throat.

A deep throat experience is very pleasurable for your partner but will take some practice. It’s something you probably won’t get right the first or second time.

Enthusiasm will turn your man on more than just dishing out techniques.

blowbyblowFrom a woman’s point of view I can only tell you that you’ll reap many rewards from giving your partner oral sex. You’ll notice a huge return of investment!

My suggestion is you get yourself a copy of  Blow by Blow which is the only book I could find any where which explains the nuances of giving a good blow job in an easy to read manner which is not offensive.

How To Seduce a Man with Every Day Things

Tuesday, March 4th, 2008

Article of the Day: by Polly Bee

How to seduce a man effortlessly – killer tricks…

Some women may think they need to plan it in order to seduce their man. Luckily, you can seduce your man doing everyday things and then some. If you really stop and think right now, you could probably come up with an idea or two right off the top of your head. Below you will find some great ways on how to seduce your man with everyday things.

Surprise him. This could mean either joining him in the shower one morning when he isn’t expecting it. This could also mean calling him and telling him just what you want to do to him when he gets home. Unless you do that everyday, he will be totally surprised and instantly turned on.

Do you usually clean house on the weekends? If you do and he is home with you, clean your house naked. Act like it is completely normal for you to do that and be sure to clean a lot in the room he is occupying. This way he can watch your every move and of course be sure to stand and move in certain ways to get him going.

Do you enjoy writing? Have you ever written erotica or anything similar? If not, this is a great first time. Write a short story with you and your guy being the main characters. Write down exactly what you would want to do with him and vice versa. Give it to your guy when you are done and when he’s done reading you better be ready!

One way many women have seduced their man is by using games. If you get home before you guy does, leave a trail of rose petals or something similar and sexy. Trail them to wherever you want to be waiting for him when he gets home. Leave little cards or notes along the way as well, using them as clues to finding you. Spice it up if you want, make it easy riddles.

Strip teasing has always been a successful method of seduction. Even if you do not know how you can learn really easily. Look online for some free videos, etc. Is there a facility in your town that offers classes for things like this? If so call them and go check it out. You will enjoy yourself even if you never get the nerve to actually do it for him!

The next time you are both at the mall or store, have him help you pick out some lingerie. You want to be sure and try it on for him, even let him in the dressing room with you if you can. If not, leave him outside and open the door so only he can see you. This will instantly excite him and surprise him as well. You will also leave knowing you have something that he thoroughly enjoys.

No matter what way you decide to seduce your man, he’s going to love it. You will enjoy yourself more than you think as well. Men like the ‘power’ they feel from things and you might get that same adrenaline rush seducing him. Knowing you are what is turning him on and it will make you feel even sexier than you already are. You won’t go wrong with these seducing ideas.

My 5 tips on How to Have Good Sex

Tuesday, February 5th, 2008

Having good sex is an act of giving and receiving. It’s a combination of involving the sensory organs, feelings and thoughts.

1. No place for inhibitions

Sad but true – some people feel awkward about sex. This unfortunately applies more often to women. Generally this happens because women have been so raised to believe that nice girls don’t behave in a sleazy way. Let’s get one thing straight – enjoying your self and flaunting your stuff in the sex act is not being sleazy – it’s called having good sex.

If you really can’t bear to show your sexy feelings because you can still see your mother giving you disapproving looks then I suggest that you remind your self you’re an adult now and this is your life.
Do what feels sexy for you – I do advise you ask your partner what turns them on. Don’t feel shy about asking.
If you feel less inhibited in the darkness then leave the lights off.

2. Be Adventurous

Take the opportunity of exploring every inch of your partner.
Stroke and kiss every where. You can take turns.
Start with the feet up.
Have you ever examined your partner’s toes? Do you even know how sexy toes are? This is a sensational feeling for the receiver and interesting for the giver.

3. Let Go

Nothing is more sex killing than worry. Stop worrying about every thing. I’ve noticed that again women tend to worry more than men. Don’t think about what pose makes your breasts look firmer or your legs longer. Rather switch off the light and go for it than be exposed to worry about how your body is looking and whether your partner finds it attractive.

4. Toys & Games

Some people think that using toys must mean there is some thing wrong with them. There is nothing wrong with using toys to enhance love making. It does not mean that the woman is frigid or the man can’t get it up.
You can use toys to explore and discover new sensations. And you don’t only have to use actual sex toys from a sex shop.
A feather can drive a person wild.

Another thing you can do is to blind fold your partner and lightly tickle their body with different objects and ask them if they can guess what it is and ask them how it feels.
Lightly stroke the back of your partner’s legs and inner thighs with a soft bristle hair brush. Watch what happens.

5. Contraception & Protection

The consequences of intercourse must always be considered before having sex. When partaking in sex for pleasure there should be no worry in the back of your mind that you may conceive a baby or contract a disease.
If you’re not in a committed and monogamous relationship with your partner don’t be mislead to believe stories like I’ll just put it in a little, I’m not fertile, I’ve had a vasectomy or I’m clean.

Last but not least

A so called quickie is generally favored by males. Women prefer to be romanced and fore played into sex.
A positive sexual experience is one that is rewarding to both partners.

Learning how to have good sex should be a priority in a love relationship. If at first it doesn’t happen then read a good sex book and experiment on your own or with your partner till you find your magic buttons.

Good sex is like a good meal – it is savored and leaves you satisfied.